It’s usually not hard for a Libra girl to persuade a Ram to unbolt the door or his heart and let her in. He’s like putty in her beautiful, dimpled hands, and as you know, Rams aren’t usually putty in anyone’s hands. Aries men aren’t made of malleable putty. They’re made of iron and steel (the metals associated with the Aries sun sign). But with a Libra lady, he’ll melt like a snowman in summer. He can’t resist her charm, the way she praises all the wonderful qualities he’s perfectly aware of but (he thinks) others always overlook… he can’t resist the undeniable sexual chemistry between them, and her feminine sweetness. (This is the beginning. Later on, he will experience a few surprises regarding her “feminine sweetness.”) She is also probably very beautiful (most Libra women are), with a smile as sweet as a carob, and every Aries likes to have a lover or wife who arouses the envy of other men.
He needs to be proud of the woman he loves, to be able to show her off and brag about her. He wants her to always look more attractive and savvy than the other women so that it’s obvious that he’s won first prize at the love fair. (Rams, you see, have this innate obsession with winning.) Since she’s probably superior to many other women—super-intelligent—and prodigiously beautiful, curvy, and so on—she’ll tick all the Martian boxes, and everything will be hunky-dory at the start of the relationship. But the Libra woman in love with an Aries man may feel, later on, that she’s often thrown off balance. Given the almost neurotic way she reacts when forced to act instantly, before she’s totally sure what she wants to do, having an impatient lover shouting at her, “Come on, what do you want, pineapple sherbet or pineapple cake? The waiter grows a beard while he waits for you to make up his mind” may be enough cause for your relationship to suffer some stormy crises. This man wants her to do things now, immediately, even sooner if possible, although he often asks at the last minute for what he wants. “Do you want me to do it today, honey,” she will ask, “or can I leave it for tomorrow?” He should never leave it for tomorrow.
In truth, most Rams would like everything they “request” to be done yesterday. This kind of illogical, impatient Martian reasoning can befuddle her delicate Venusian psyche. She might ask, “Wouldn’t it make more sense to plan ahead and try to do it tomorrow?” And then she’d hear him bellow, “Don’t argue with me! Just do what I say… please.” If he has a more affable Moon or Ascendant sign, he’ll add the “please”… otherwise, he’ll content himself with blithely, thoughtlessly blurting out orders, not even suspecting that his behavior is unreasonable and a bit like that of a spoiled child. I know a Libra wife who gave her Aries partner a birthday present of her own making. A velvet and satin tapestry, in a fire-engine shade of red, typical of Mars, on which was embroidered the phrase: “Dear God, grant me the gift of patience… but quickly.” He was delighted. This is one of the virtues of the typical Aries: he knows how to laugh at himself and is almost never upset when his faults are pointed out to him (kindly, not sullenly or in a harsh and critical manner). But it is necessary to point them out from time to time.
As soon as the Ram realizes he’s been behaving selfishly, he’ll apologize and promise not to do it again, after which he’ll do it again… and again… and again. The average Mars-ruled man doesn’t find it hard to apologize. This is one of his most admirable traits. Aries is quick to confess a fault and take the blame, but he’s not so quick to give up the bad habit for which he so openly and generously apologized. Likewise, being able to admit one’s mistakes and start over is a real virtue. He tries. He doesn’t always succeed, but God knows he tries. She apologizes sweetly, too. Libra, like Aries, is rarely reluctant to confess her faults and willingly express her regret. In truth, she may be too quick to confess her mistakes… or perhaps it would be more appropriate to say that she may be too willing and ready to decide that what she thought (or did) may have been wrong. If she has offended him in word or deed, she will worry and try to find a way to atone for her guilt in a friendly way. In her relationship with this man, this will be a very frequent phenomenon. I am referring to the atonement: she will apologize and atone for the guilt of having hurt his feelings, because this man is ultrasensitive. He wants everyone to appreciate him, and even to love him: his family, his friends, strangers… and naturally the woman he owns. (This is more or less his way of thinking: she is his property, as if she were a special, exciting, precious, long-awaited and long-desired gift that he found one morning under his Christmas tree.)
Aries men can be unduly self-centered, without meaning to be. She will gradually come to terms with this idea, but in the meantime, her very delicate Venusian sensibilities will be more than a little upset. She will try to deploy all the powers of Libran logic and persuasion to make him understand that not everyone can love him. But her arguments will make little impression on the Ram. He will not understand why his worst enemies do not esteem and admire him, no matter what he said or did to anger them. They should understand that he was right, after all – and that he had no ill intentions. He was merely defending himself from something bad that they had done to him. Why are they not more cordial? Why do they not realize that he is sorry for having spoken thoughtlessly and that he has already forgotten his anger? The Ram wants people to forget grievances as quickly as he forgets them. He always feels very hurt when others sulk or hold a grudge against him for something he considers past and forgotten.
His enemies today are his comrades tomorrow. He will come home, furious with someone, and expect his Libra lady to share his fury with the person who has offended him. If she refuses to humor him, if she tries to fairly analyze the other side’s point of view, and if she tries to point out to her Aries lover or husband what his own mistake may have been, he will turn on her, sometimes exasperated, sometimes even tearful, and accuse her of disloyalty. She does not love him. If she did, she would side with him, and not defend his enemies. She is not interested in Libra’s fairness. The only correct point of view is his—and if she really wanted him to, she would understand that. While the Ram is enraged, he cannot value any other version of the conflict than his own, and he expects the woman he loves to support him vehemently and consistently. He may feel a little embarrassed the next day, and he may behave like a perfect lamb in confessing his imprudence and atoning for it. Then, you see, he will be happy for her to reproach him for his mistake – because he has also become aware of it. But not before he becomes aware of it himself. Never before. Naturally, a woman ruled by Venus is better placed than any other to balance the delicate situation created by the sudden outbursts of rage of the man she loves, and by his even quicker reconciliations. She is tender, feminine, logical, intelligent and prudent. But she was born under a masculine sign, and she is likely to rebel sporadically when she feels that he is being totally unfair. However, it is difficult for her to change that.
He will scowl or storm out of the room (slamming the door loudly), or stand in the corner, convinced that she hates him. It would be unwise for the Libra woman to use her “iron fist in a velvet glove” too often in her relationship with this man. After a while, he senses when he is being manipulated. He may innocently accept it at first (Aries is almost entirely devoid of mischief, and is almost never overly suspicious), but as soon as he realizes that she is trying to force him into a certain pattern of behavior, he will either become stubborn or indignant – or do both. No one dictates what he must do. He governs himself. Even when he wants to do something specific, he will probably refuse to do it if he thinks that is what she wants – not because he distrusts her motives, but because he is afraid of doing what someone else suggests – especially what someone else openly asks him to do. The typical Aries man is not bothered by the fact that she likes to discuss (argue, debate or whatever) any decision or situation of small or large magnitude. He interprets this as a controversy, a challenge, an excitement! He would cry from boredom in the company of a woman who never contradicted him.
The harbinger of a contest filled with glee is his Martian nature, whether it be a gentle verbal dispute over which movie to see or which car to buy, or a polemic over more general or public issues, such as those concerning what to do about pornography, solar heating, nuclear power, political corruption, or other burning issues of the day. But he will like to win all these arguments. He will not give an inch – until he wins (or until his shrewd Libra lady lets him believe he has won). Then he will feel proud. This man’s sexual self-image is closely tied to his ability to always be right and to come out on top in the eyes of the woman he loves. He must be respected, esteemed, approved of, and admired in order to project his considerable Martian virility as a lover. If he feels rejected on the intellectual level, or on any other level, he will turn into an Arian block of ice (always more dangerous and enduring than the Arian fire… or his fiery outbursts of anger). Normally, the couple’s sexual relationship will be unusually happy and healthy. Her femininity and his masculinity will harmonize beautifully and peacefully, with the greatest naturalness. As long as she does not allow the masculine side of the essence of her Sun sign to interfere in her intimacy (by demonstrating, for example, that her aptitudes in all the areas illuminated by the Sun are identical to his, as they probably are), and then pretends that he feels, on the physical level, as if he were the conquering macho.
He must take the lead in their sexual fusion, as in everything else. If she allows him, and understands his driving needs, he will be the most sensitive, romantic, sentimental, affectionate, and passionate lover imaginable. But if she destroys the self-confidence he so desperately needs, he can become a demanding tyrant. This is highly unlikely unless she has the Moon or Ascendant in Virgo, Sagittarius, Cancer, or Capricorn—or many planets in Earth signs—in her birth chart. Her basic instinct is tact and consideration, which usually blend pleasantly and equally with her own well-structured and controlled, enterprising and aggressive nature. Although their natures are distinctly bipolar, the Mars-ruled man and the Venus-ruled woman harmonize exquisitely. After all, Mars and Venus themselves fell vehemently and definitively in love—even though Venus was married to Jupiter. They were caught, of course, in a web stealthily woven by Neptune… but Jupiter’s anger did not at all mitigate the passion of the two lovers.
The study of Greek mythology is immensely helpful in understanding all the Sun signs. When you consider that the Ram loves to frolic on rocky slopes and that the Lady of Venus lives in the precarious world of the swinging scales of her scales, where the slightest breath of wind can upset her inner harmony and outer calm, it is surprising how successfully these two often unite their divergent natures. The Libra woman can find with this man the intoxicating freedom and exciting mental activity she seeks… and the Ram will love to wander through Libra’s cool woods, down winding paths where bluebells and butterflies abound. The Libra lady is quite the woman. Very few men can coexist with her powerful combination of masculine tenacity – and delicious exquisiteness. But no one like the Aries can meet portentous challenges and overcome them… and her challenge promises fabulous rewards to the victor. All men are children at heart, and the Ram more so than most of his kind. Outwardly, there is nothing childish about him. He is robust and energetic—a hairy-chested man, as they say. What gives him his youthful air is the aura of impossible dreams and yearning desires that hangs like a mist around his shoulders—and the spell that lurks behind his eyes and makes him so vulnerable. If she uses her Venusian charm and patience to channel his passionate ambitions and incredible energies toward a worthy goal, he can become a crusader for all kinds of virtues and glories. (Both have a strong sense of compassion for the weak and can be outraged by injustice.)
She will rarely if ever smother his enthusiastic spontaneity with relentless criticism, sarcasm, silent sulking, long melancholy silences, or retractions—and this will please him. He will rarely if ever refuse to show himself genuinely interested and fascinated by her need to discuss and debate things—and this will comfort her. The root cause of any conflict that arises between them will lie in the shared cardinal essence of their births. For Aries and Libra are cardinal signs of leadership. Their relationship will never prosper when they are constantly grappling with who is the general and who is the recruit, who gallops ahead and who lags behind. They must learn to ride side by side, as equals, not as superior and subordinate. Only then will they find their way back to each other’s hearts, after they have quarreled and wronged each other. Otherwise, you will be lost like Hansel and Gretel, and you know how happy they were to be able to go home together, at the end of their adventures. The only real security is to feel loved by someone who accepts you as you are, with all your faults. By someone who would not change you for another… ever. By someone who lets you know that, even when you behave badly. This is security. This is emotional security. This is home… where love resides.
Aries Man Obsessed with Libra Woman
The horoscope gives the Libra Woman Aries Man bond a very good compatibility.
It is the union par excellence because she finds with the Aries man the freedom she has always longed for. The Libra woman is one of the few women in the zodiac who is not interested in money, that is why she would never marry for that interest and with that motive, although they agree that money is an important part of life.
He finds security in the Libra woman. She will love him with his virtues and his defects like no other woman because she has all the consideration and tact that she needs to enliven this relationship. The only conflict that can appear between them is that they both love leadership and if they do not get out of it, the relationship may not prosper.
The Aries Man and Libra Woman couple
The compatibility relationship between an Aries man and a Libra woman can be a bit difficult at first, but once it has been crossed, these lovebirds are destined for a “happily ever after.”
A Libra woman has her insecurities to test her Aries man. The Aries man might not thrive well with an insecure woman, so it might be a bit difficult for both to get started. But once they have navigated this difficulty, there are many more happy years for the two of you to enjoy.
An Aries man loves adventure, and so does the Libra woman. It becomes much easier for the couple to get a strong bond while exploring the fun. The couple will have a deeper connection that will help them connect on an emotional level. Their love for each other will solve all their problems. They will be able to understand each other with their emotions more rather than with their words.
Even when their pairing seems like an impossible thing to do, it won’t be a bad future for an Aries man and a Libra woman in a relationship.
Some Aries men and a Libra woman end up breaking up as they may have trust issues and insecurities. If these small gaps in their relationship are not taken into account, then they are sure to have the next level of attraction for each other.
Aries Man Libra Woman Sexually
Ruled by the planets Mars and Venus, who are in charge of sex, these couples have a very good time most of the time in bed. They could have high libidos that will make it easier for them to have a great sex life. They can teach each other a lot with the extensive knowledge they have in bed. A Libra woman will want to know what her partner wants in bed, and the perfect match for her will be her Aries partner.
An Aries man would want to control his Libra woman in bed, by being a bit aggressive. A Libra woman should know how to satisfy an Aries man and force him to do what she wants him to do. This can be a bit difficult though, but with proper communication, the Aries man and Libra woman can get what they both want.
Sometimes their sexual attraction is what keeps them active as when they communicate properly, they can end up having the best sex life. Some couples who don’t communicate properly end up in a breakup.
Pros and cons of this relationship
For one thing, there are some pros when an Aries man and Libra woman date someone. An Aries man who loves to walk can explore the world with a playful and adventurous Libra woman. As both the Libra woman and the Aries man love to connect on a deeper level, they have a greater understanding and will love to communicate. They could just talk all night.
An Aries man and a Libra woman will have such great sexual compatibility that it will make them grow stronger in their relationship. These zodiac signs will remain loyal to each other and are destined for a great life. There is always a great future ahead of the dating life of an Aries man and a Libra woman.
On the other hand, the few cons of an Aries man dating a Libra woman have to be overcome. An Aries man is impatient, while the Libra woman knows how to be patient and in a stable state because she loves to balance herself.
The insecurities of a Libra woman could drive away a carefree Aries man. And also, the sexual tension that exists between the Aries man and the Libra woman, as to who needs to gain full control can eventually lead to a breakup.
The marriage between Libra and Aries
The air sign Libra and the fire sign Aries can make a great duo when all the conditions are right. With proper communication and balance, it is possible to bring love life into married life. Being able to talk to your partner is what makes the relationship special. The best way to reach your partner’s heart is through proper communication.
Opposites are often said to attract each other, just like the Aries man and the Libra woman. They may be purely opposite in nature, but they may also be strongly linked to each other. It is as if to say: “Men are from Mars and women are from Venus.” These couples tend to enjoy each other’s company despite their differences.
If you feel like your relationship is headed for trouble or you’ve lost your temper over your Libra woman, then feel free to surprise her or send her flowers so she can lessen her anger. The Libra woman is delicate and your actions can easily move her, so be sure to send her all your love in her own way and make her feel special.
Both the Aries man and a Libra woman have a selfless love for each other. Their love alone is enough to keep them going. If these two zodiac signs work, it will be a beautiful love journey.
So if you are an Aries man and have found the love of your life in a Libra woman, then you better hold on to her. How she can make your life worth living, you have no idea.
The Libra-Aries Obsession
These two have opposite characters and personalities. One prefers to take a more practical approach and take matters into his own hands, often impulsively, while the other patiently waits and observes all the factors that need to be taken into account.
The Aries, being the hothead, might actually calm down a bit and cut down on the jet fuel it has been consuming so far. In turn, the Libra native could take some of her partner’s visceral enthusiasm and take the bull by the horns, intensifying the game.
Both the Aries and Libra are in love with the taste of victory, and the feeling of beating the competition in a very close battle is the best.
But, while the Ram seeks confirmation of his abilities and aptitudes, the Libra lover has a more moral and humanitarian scope in mind. Therefore, they want everyone to find benefits in their actions.
And when found in a fight, if possible, all parties involved should leave the battlefield with a little something, and not just the feeling of bitter defeat.
They just want to get out of the burning guns and go straight to the slaughter. Is it such a difficult thing to do? However, these differences will make it very difficult for you to come together, unless, of course, you can connect on the most intimate of levels.
How to improve this relationship
The Libra-Aries bond has a good compatibility. That does not mean that everything will be rosy … complications may arise that put the relationship in a crisis.
The Libra Woman and Aries Man bond always dreams big and is projected in the long term. Luckily they coincide a lot in their objectives. But they can be very disappointed if they don’t stick to them or if they feel that their partner is trying little to achieve them. It will always be essential to strive to achieve the proposed objectives, otherwise, this link will easily become dismantled.
The Libra woman must give the Aries enough freedom not to suffocate him. They must find a common point between the two.
They are also very competitive, this trait can make them crash against each other. So they should be mindful of that.
A major problem that arises over time in this couple is monotony and routine. To improve, you should seek different activities from the usual ones.
Small daily changes, even some insignificant ones, can change a couple’s routine and ultimately positively influence the mood of both. Some simple examples: share a book and then comment on it, instead of a typical Hollywood movie change for a Bollywood one, play a board game together, etc. These are tiny details that alter the daily routine and help the growth of the relationship.
Then they can also try to make bigger changes to give the relationship more oxygen like radically changing the vacation spot, finding new mutual friends, building a mini-nursery together, and many more. The satisfaction of sowing and waiting for the harvest or flowers together can be truly exciting and it strengthens the relationship bonds.
It is of utmost importance to connect with each other’s family and friends in this relationship. Having a relationship with your partner’s family and friends helps in expanding social awareness and subtly enriches the cultural environment. Gaining the trust of your partner’s environment serves to get to know each other better and they can also help you solve unforeseen problems. Why? Because who better than them to know exactly what may be happening to your partner in a certain problematic moment?
In the bedroom, it is essential to avoid acting in a self-centered manner. Both parties need to derive satisfaction from giving and receiving gifts, to the fullest extent that their imaginations and fantasies will allow. Both partners ought to enjoy themselves sexually. This will be of critical significance in maintaining the couple’s health over the course of many years.
Compatibility of Aries and Libra Based on Their Moon and Rising Signs
Both Libra and Aries have a moon that is harmoniously compatible with them. The acceptance of others is necessary for Libra, and their tastes may simply coincide with those of Aries. Aries yearns for independence, whereas Libra longs for close companionship and community. Both Aries and Libra are prone to irrational behaviour and outbursts, but Aries is more likely to act on impulses, whereas Libra is more likely to try to avoid uncomfortable circumstances. The moon signs suggest that the relationship may be either too good or too bad for the two people involved. It’s possible that the peaceful and non-aggressive methods of the Libra moon will make the Aries moon feel frustrated.
The compatibility of the rising sign takes into account both the ruling planet and the relationship of the other planets to one another. As a general rule, individuals born under the sign of Aries are drawn to those born under the sign of Libra, and vice versa. The ascendant of Aries is frequently active and has a tendency to arrive at a decision without taking any more steps. On the other hand, Libra is outgoing, composed, does not rush through problems, and makes an effort to resolve conflicts in a level-headed manner.
Although they have a strong affinity for one another, Aries and Libra couldn’t be more different from one another. As a result, certain missteps in their relationship are unavoidable and to be expected. Exhibiting love and compassion is the key to maintaining a cordial relationship between them and keeping their link intact. Keep scrolling to learn more about the benefits and drawbacks of the Aries and Libra relationship.
Summary
| Criterion | Degree of compatibility: Libra woman and Aries man | |
| Emotional connection | Average | Three Stars |
| Communication | Average | Three Stars |
| Trust and dependency | Weak | One Star |
| Common values | Below average | Two Stars |
| Intimacy and sex | Strong | Four Stars |