Do you feel like you’re playing a game of hide-and-seek with Cupid and he or she just can’t seem to find you? Like you’re love-blocked? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Many of us have been there at some point in our lives, wondering why it seems like love is on strike when we’re ready to welcome it with open arms. But worry no more! Here are three ways to get love-blocked and stop being the eternally a single man or a woman.
1. Get out of your comfort zone!
Are you stuck in a rut that seems more boring than a bad movie on a Saturday night? It’s time to change that! Love doesn’t usually come knocking on your door while you’re on the couch watching Netflix (unless you live in a romantic comedy). Get out of your comfort zone and dare to try new things. Why not sign up for that cooking class you’ve always wanted to take? Or how about joining a hiking group or signing up for dance classes? Getting out and meeting new people will broaden your horizons and increase your chances of finding that special someone. You can also do a Love Tarot Reading, which will help you see your situation from another perspective.
2. Ask yourself: How much do you like yourself?
We know, it sounds cliché, but it’s a universal truth: self-love is the key to attracting another person’s love. Take a moment to reflect on yourself. Are you happy with yourself and your life? Are there aspects of yourself that you’d like to improve? Go ahead! Make those changes you’ve always wanted to make. Whether it’s going to the gym, reading more books, or dedicating time to your hobbies, focus on being the best version of yourself. When you feel confident and happy with yourself, you’ll radiate that positive energy and attract people who value and admire everything you are. If you want to learn to know and understand yourself, you can also do that with a Natal Chart session.
Remember: “When we fall in love with ourselves, we allow others to fall in love with us.”
3. Stop searching desperately!
Yes, I know, it’s easier said than done, but listen up! Obsessing over finding a partner will only increase your stress and anxiety levels, and that’s not sexy at all. Instead, try to relax and enjoy the ride. Focus on enjoying your life to the fullest and doing the things that make you happy. When you least expect it, love will knock on your door when you least expect it, and you’ll be ready to welcome it with open arms.
Love is out there, waiting for you, you just need to be ready to receive it. Good luck!
5 mantras to cultivate self-love day by day
- «My worth does not depend on the approval of others. I love and accept myself completely, with all my imperfections.»
- «I forgive myself for my mistakes and learn from them. My past does not define my worth. Today I choose to move forward with compassion and love for myself.»
- “I am enough just the way I am. My self-esteem grows every day as I recognize my own worth and celebrate my achievements, big and small.”
- «I take care of my emotional, physical and mental well-being. I commit to treating myself with kindness and honoring my needs. I am my best ally on this journey called life.»
- «I recognize and celebrate my unique strengths. I allow myself to shine with authenticity and pride, knowing that I am extraordinary just the way I am.»
Remember to repeat these mantras sincerely and regularly, allowing yourself to feel the depth of their words and letting them guide your actions toward a stronger and more lasting self-love. You are worth it!