Astral Attraction: The Role of Venus and Mars in Love

When we fall in love with someone, we start to think of all the possibilities to see if we will work with them.

Usually the first thing that comes to mind is: “Does my sign match his/her?”. However, although the sun sign is also important when checking compatibility with your loved one, it is not the main factor in this situation.

Thus, to find out if the person suits us, it is important to analyze the positions of Venus and Mars on the map, because these are the planets responsible for the attraction.

Let’s understand each one a little better:


Venus is the planet of love. In this sense, it represents the feminine side of one’s personality, the way passions are lived, and also what one seeks in the loving sense.

Thus, the sign located on Venus determines how we love and how we express this feeling.

For women, Venus determines how she will approach love relationships and what she is looking for.

In men, Venus shows how he deals with his feminine side and can also indicate the type of women he seeks in a relationship.


Mars is the planet of struggle and passion. In this sense, it shows everything that makes us vibrate and that deeply affects our emotions.

Thus, the sign located on Mars refers to what attracts us, our desires, and especially our sexuality.

For women, Mars shows how she deals with her masculine side as well as the men in her life, as well as her sex life.

For men, Mars reveals the way they love, what makes them happy, and how they express their sexuality.

However, to make this analysis in homoaffective relationships, the couple must find out who represents Venus and who represents Mars in the relationship. For this, it is interesting to consult an astrologer.

The meaning of Venus in each sign:

Venus in Aries:

Venus in this position reveals a passionate, impulsive nature that can fall in love at first sight. You live love with total surrender, but you need strong emotions constantly to keep the flame burning.

Venus in Taurus:

Venus in Taurus shows a romantic and cautious personality, meaning the person is very prudent when looking for a partner and needs to have the confidence gained. In addition, sex is very important, but it can also be quite jealous.

Venus in Gemini:

To conquer someone who has Venus in this sign, it is necessary that the person knows how to talk about subjects of the same interest. While you face love lightly, you also shy away from commitments or people who make you feel suffocated.

Venus in Cancer:

Romance is something essential in this person’s life. Those with Venus in cancer show a strong need for affection as well as complicity. You may be insecure because you are afraid of being hurt, but when you feel comfortable you are very sensual.

Venus in Virgo:

Venus in this position reveals a very cautious person when it comes to seeking love, but when she truly loves, she is caring and does things that show how attentive she is to her lover.

Venus in Libra:

People with Venus in Libra can have many loves. However, they view love as something deep and spiritual that needs to be lived out as an intense romance.

Venus in Scorpio:

Who has Venus in Scorpio gives himself completely to the love he is feeling. In addition, it can be extremely sensual. The couple’s sex life is extremely important to her.

Venus in Sagittarius:

Sagittarius on Venus reveals a nature that seeks love with enthusiasm. However, their desire for perfect love and the need to sacrifice freedom make it difficult for these people to remain faithful or stable in relationships.

Venus in Capricorn:

The person with Venus in Capricorn shows a little insecurity and fear of not being loved back. But when you truly surrender and trust, you show love through great acts.

Venus in Aquarius:

Those who have Venus in Aquarius often have a more rational attitude toward love, and even if they deeply love each other, they avoid feelings such as jealousy and possession.

Venus in Pisces:

Those who have Venus in Pisces are extremely sensitive and are able to do everything to satisfy their loved one. When in a relationship, it can dissolve into love itself.

The meaning of Mars in each sign:

Mars in Aries:

People with Mars in this sign tend to have strong impulses, are stimulated by conquest and constant challenges.

Mars in Taurus:

Who has Mars on Taurus is usually persistent and almost always achieves his goal. Still, they are determined people who have an intense sex life.

Mars in Gemini:

Those who have Gemini in this position tend to like the stimuli caused by people who know how to challenge them. In addition, they need variety in their sex lives to maintain interest in their partner.

Mars in Cancer:

Those with Mars in this sign are usually more emotional, not revealing their impulses, and can only relate sexually to people who are emotionally involved.

Mars in Leo:

People with Mars in Leo are ardent and impulsive. This is because the sign potentiates the fire of Mars. Still, they have a striking personality and like to be noticed.

Mars in Virgo:

With a calm temperament, those who have Mars as Virgo may seem cold, but in fact seek sexual experiences that are intense on the physical and mental level.

Mars in Libra:

Those who have Mars in Libra are usually romantic and like to enjoy long moments of pleasure. However, they are the type who prefer to be conquered over someone.

Mars in Scorpio:

Those who have Scorpio in this position are intense and vigorous. Moreover, they are dominant and have a magnetism and willpower that stand out.

Mars in Sagittarius:

People with Mars in Sagittarius are often adept at free love and spontaneous sexuality. For this reason, they do not usually get caught easily.

Mars in Capricorn:

With remarkable self-control, those who have Mars on Capricorn show no more than they wish. Moreover, they do not like to be commanded in relationships.

Mars in Aquarius:

Those who have Mars in this sign are free and original. In addition, they are unpredictable and, even though they have strong sexual desires, often run away from commitments.

Mars in Pisces:

Those who have Mars in Pisces often attract with their engaging sensitivity. Still, when they live sex, they live it with surrender and intensity.

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