When someone describes an Aries woman as aggressive, bossy, emotional, impulsive, impractical, and unbearably immature, the Virgo man who has loved her will almost always disagree. He has found none of these faults in her. He thought she was a solid woman—perhaps too much of a woman for him to handle—but he will remember her as frank and honest, fresh and innocent. “She was generous with her time and money,” he will say. “She shared my idealistic attitude toward love, taught me many things, and treated me tenderly and kindly. Perhaps she was a little wronged or jealous from time to time, but she never made a real scene. She was always ready to talk things over with me, to listen to reason. And when we made up after a little quarrel, she made me believe in happiness again, just like the first time. She was sweet, affectionate—and eternally young.” When you finish this nostalgic dissertation, your interlocutor will probably ask you, “Are you sure she was an Aries?” Yes, she was an Aries, ruled by Mars, the planet of war and aggressive behavior. But an Aries woman will surprisingly often display her softer side, her hidden femininity, and her deep latent capacity to love a Virgo generously. When she finds a benevolent and considerate man, a man who admires her courage and her brilliant mind, who rarely competes with her, who teaches her gently, who understands her flaws, and who has faith in her dreams… she trusts him wholeheartedly. Her hidden Aries uncertainties and secret fear of incompetence dissipate, and along with them the need to assert herself by force, with the mistaken conviction that to conquer is to triumph… both in love and in war. The need to fight is extinguished when the love he so desperately seeks is given to him, and when it is given to him as a gift, purely and totally, as Virgo love is always given, unconditionally.
So why didn’t it last? Because of Virgo’s instinctive fear of marriage. Since the Aries woman doesn’t know how to interpret patience as a virtue and expects all her wishes to materialize immediately, as soon as she says “abracadabra,” she may become discouraged (perhaps too soon), run away in tears, and finally convince herself that it was just a beautiful friendship. Curiously, this is what frustrated love between the two often becomes after the wounds have healed. Thanks to Virgo’s innate courtesy and gallantry, they are left with fewer bitter memories than those that usually linger after the breakup of a romance between other sun signs. Likewise, sometimes the love between Aries and Virgo lasts forever, and then life can be very beautiful. However, there will be a few shadows scattered among the sunlight, and they will have to be faced realistically and not emotionally. He’s willing to face anything realistically, without self-deception, but she may need a little help. (In truth, she may need a lot of help.) But if she can do it, she has more merit than he does. The Virgo man finds it easy to analyze a situation, find the flaws, compromise, and clear up the confusion. He hasn’t really earned much praise for doing something so instinctive, something that comes out of his own accord. An Aries girl’s natural reaction to a problem is to first hammer it and then ram it with her Ram’s horns, hoping to pulverize it. If that doesn’t work, she agrees to sit down and discuss the pros and cons on his side. So if she can learn to approach a misunderstanding with a cool head and rational spirit, she deserves the respect reserved for those who accomplish the near impossible.
All the memories of the Ram girl that the Virgo man mentioned above still has in his clean mind were forged when their romance was fresh. Had the relationship lasted longer or led to marriage, he might not see her as exactly the same as an angel. She would also see him as something less than a saint. Most of the fights between Aries and Virgo will revolve around his need to criticize her. If he is really analytical, he will soon realize that he is less in danger from her when the winds blow hot than when they blow cold. I have already repeatedly warned that one should fear the ice of Aries more than his fire. The latter burns itself out. The former can shake the astrological novice when the Aries woman stops crying wolf and shouts goodbye. It is unlikely that she will look back at yesterday after leaving. Perhaps the present freedom will be far more exciting than the memories of past pain, memories that fade quickly. It has been said that Rams never learn to avoid the fire when they are burned by a hot stove. They are always willing to repeat the experience. Perhaps. But not necessarily with the same stove. It is worth remembering.
Let’s get back to criticism. True, he has secret ways of convincing her that his criticisms do not imply a lack of love. But loved or not, she will not be happy when the list of his faults is longer than the list of his talents and virtues. If he wants to have a peaceful relationship with this woman, he must learn to appreciate the good taste and neatness with which she sets up an attractive home, and he must refrain from peeking under the sink to see if she has polished the garbage disposal pipe—or from rummaging through the cupboard to see if she has scrubbed the shelves. She probably hasn’t. Someone else can do it. Him, for example. Or a maid. She may also have a habit of spending now and paying tomorrow, which can lead to periodic bouts of Virgo nervousness. With Aries, sulking in the corner, scolding her, or hiding the credit cards will do no good. The best solution is to let her get a job and squander her own money.
The combination of Aries and Virgo implies a 6-8 Sun Sign configuration. This means, among other things, that devotion, service, and working together will always be part of the relationship. It also means something that may take those who don’t understand astrology by surprise: a strangely compulsive sexual attraction. She represents, to him, the sexual mystery. He represents, to her, the kind of sexual relationship she can trust. Curiously, even though their personalities are fundamentally different, these two can enjoy a rare compatibility of physical desires and expression. Perhaps this stems from the essential innocence and purity of intention that the symbolic Newborn and the symbolic Virgin bring, in an esoteric sense, to their lovemaking. Or it may be because they hold a mutual conviction that sexual union involves the ultimate fusion of the deepest longings of man and woman, bringing their bodies, minds, and souls together in a melodic harmony of intention and mutual tenderness.
What captivates the Virgo man’s innate honesty may be the woman’s directness, her simplicity in approaching intimacy, and the fact that his latent passion can only be awakened in the company of someone who will accompany him in the desire to elevate physical love above a casual erotic encounter or passing pleasure. Just as what moves her so tenderly is the Virgo’s selfless consideration for her needs. Whatever the motive, the sexual relationship between them is generally a powerful force, often resulting in the kind of emotional soothing and physical satisfaction that helps them tolerate differences and tensions in other areas of their cohabitation. For Aries and Virgo, sex is a renewal of hope and a new reciprocal consecration. In most Aries-Virgo unions, the Virgo man will feel that the Aries female encapsulates everything he will ever want or need from a woman as long as he lives. The excitement of her spontaneous passion often deepens his basic worldly instincts. But she may feel from time to time that he is not spontaneous enough, not passionate enough, and she may lie awake at his side for many a night, wondering if that is all there is to love.
For some reason she thought he would be more like her daydreams, more tempestuous and frenetic. She loves his gentleness and thoughtfulness, but she may occasionally wish he would make her feel truly conquered and subdued… The Ram girl must understand that the combined forces of her Virgo man’s adopted ruler, Mercury, and his as yet undiscovered true ruler, the planet Vulcan, frequently prompt him to engage in the mental gymnastics of the moment—and to pursue an idea to its conclusion. When she accuses him of abandoning her in such a state, he won’t understand. His busy mind has been pondering amoebas, which divide and shoot into the air as they reproduce. He may resent being brought back to the reality of love between man and woman in such a circumstance. She will be outraged by his detachment, and her instinctive need to employ the fiery Martian device of demanding attention from him may lead to some unpleasant scenes between the two of them. He will be extremely displeased when she backs him into a corner with her insistent demands for direct answers. Especially when he is in the throes of one of his frequent bouts of heartbreaking depression and frustration.
At such times the only way to handle it is to pretend that she does not even notice his gloom and sadness. She must make a conscious effort to keep herself upbeat, she must completely repress her own sensitivity to abandonment—and she must direct all her concern and understanding toward him, not toward her. She must suggest entertaining activities—and formulate optimistic plans for the future. But quietly and moderately—not with a torrent of words that will only serve to make him retreat deeper into his mental seclusion. He does not need her chatter when he is worried, and he will not reveal to her what is troubling him. He needs to know that she is close at hand, that is all—that she is nearby, singing or humming, and going about her business confidently in the background. This gives him a feeling of security. Though he turns a deaf ear to her suggestions that he leave the house, and though he resists moving when she gently urges him to change the scene, he will eventually gradually yield, if not urged.
Whatever the suggestion, it only takes one word. If he doesn’t listen… wait a bit. The one thing he doesn’t need during these Virgo worry sessions is to be badgered… or saddled with the added burden of seeing the woman he loves in tears because his silence and detachment have made her feel neglected, and therefore sorry for herself. Self-pity is the worst thing the Ram girl can afford to display when her Virgo man has temporarily withdrawn from her, mentally and emotionally. Patience, sweetness, tenderness, just being there in case he needs her… these are the ingredients of the subtle alchemy that will unfailingly make the twinkling stars in her clear, serene Virgo eyes shine again. She should stop looking for faults (Aries is quick to imitate, and can copy Virgo’s critical syndrome after a while), and instead take stock of her blessings. This man will almost never restrict her freedom, imposing unnecessary limitations and restrictions on her activities. (This is a very prudent attitude, because she will do whatever she wants anyway, out of pure resentment against the pretence of dictating to her how she should behave, where she should go and when she should return.) But it is undeniable that sometimes the Virgo man’s sharp and satirical comments can deeply hurt this woman in the sensitive area of her self-confidence. In addition, he may not be as demonstrative as she would like him to be – not in the area of sexual intimacy, but in that of everyday communication and contact.
Demonstrative affection does not spring spontaneously from Virgo, and you may need to cultivate it deliberately if you wish to keep her, because she has a deep-rooted need for tangible displays of affection (the little touching things, like smothering hugs, a kiss on the cheek, a meaningful wink from across the room, or an unexpectedly strong handshake). If their relationship lacks these constant proofs of love, her belligerence and defiance will increase in direct proportion to the extent of her emotional deprivation. The Aries girl is gregarious, affectionate, and demonstrative. She resents and worries when the man she loves shows her that he would occasionally prefer to be busy with other things without her company. But he needs to enjoy more moments of solitude than most other men, because in their absence her Virgo fussiness, nervousness, and irritability can increase. Although it may not be easy for the Ram woman to really understand the fact that her Virgo man needs to enjoy intimacy and solitude so often, she can take comfort in the fact that this man is much less likely than any other Sun sign to hurt her by flirting with another woman when she is away. Virgo, like Aries, usually falls in love forever. Yes, I know that eternal love is so rare that it can be described as a miracle. But if you expect a miracle, you will get it… every time.
Virgo Man Obsessed with Aries Woman
The horoscope gives the Aries-Virgo bond a low compatibility.
Virgo men and Aries women have their ups and downs. Neither of these signs is too difficult for a romantic partner to understand, but because these two are different in many ways, sparks will emerge.
The Virgo man is extremely critical, he always finds defects in everything, on the other hand the Aries woman considers herself perfect. For this and other reasons, it is difficult for both signs to agree.
Virgo believes that Aries is not feminine enough and is very aggressive. While the Virgo is cold and unloving, something that Aries does not like.
The Virgo woman will probably end this relationship.
Unpredictable love: When Aries Woman meet Virgo Man
As a therapist specializing in romantic relationships, I have witnessed numerous stories of couples with different zodiac signs. One of the most fascinating was between Mary, an Aries woman, and Peter, a Virgo man.
Maria, with her overflowing energy and passion, had always longed for a passionate relationship full of strong emotions. Pedro, on the other hand, was a calm and meticulous man, who valued stability and routine in his life. They seemed to be polar opposites in every way, which posed many challenges to their love compatibility.
From the beginning, the relationship between María and Pedro was intense. Both were captivated by the overwhelming personality of the other. Maria found in Pedro someone who countered his impulsiveness with his calmness and objectivity, while Pedro was drawn to Maria’s energy and enthusiasm, elements that added excitement to her life.
However, as their relationship progressed, significant differences emerged. Maria craved spontaneous moments and adventure, while Pedro preferred stability and careful planning. This discrepancy generated constant conflicts between them, and both began to question whether their relationship was really viable.
It was at that critical moment when I decided to intervene and help this couple understand and overcome their differences. Through couples therapy sessions, I provided them with tools to explore and better understand their own desires, needs, and expectations.
We discovered that Mary needed to learn to respect and appreciate Peter’s organized nature, while Peter needed to learn to embrace Mary’s spontaneity and passion. Together, they gained effective communication skills and learned to find a middle ground in their different approaches to life.
As they progressed through their process of personal growth and development, Maria and Pedro realized that their relationship could be a unique and powerful combination. They learned to adapt to each other, balancing routine and adventure, stability and excitement.
Over time, María and Pedro managed to build a solid and harmonious relationship. They learned to appreciate each other’s differences instead of seeing them as obstacles, and each complemented each other’s traits and qualities.
This story between Maria and Pedro proves that while compatibility between an Aries woman and a Virgo man can be challenging, with dedication and understanding, it is possible to forge a successful and long-lasting relationship. The love between them was not predestined by their zodiac signs, but by their willingness to adapt and grow together.
The good points
Impulsive, the Aries woman will act before she thinks. On the other hand, the Virgo man does nothing before carefully planning and thinking of all the pros and cons. If these two are in a relationship, they will soften each other’s extremes.
Virgo man and Aries woman will have a great sexual attraction for each other. While many people will find this association strange, because they are different temperaments, she will be drawn to the fact that he is so disciplined, and he will like her for being so uninhibited and sexy.
She will learn to be humble, while he will be shown how to trust his own instincts and not analyze everything so thoroughly.
Virgo is mature and intelligent. He will never be as charming as her, but he will respect her enthusiasm. The emotions you will experience when you are together will be deep and meaningful.
Even though they have different opinions on life, these two will love and support each other unconditionally.
He is practical and mature. The Aries woman can be sure that she will receive some very solid advice when she is with him. But she will not be very happy when he criticizes her and analyzes her every move.
Loyalty and devotion are the keywords in this relationship. He won’t care so much that she’s immature. Virgo is honest. There will be no manipulation or cheating in a relationship in which they are involved.
The negative points
Because they are so different, the Aries woman and the Virgo man may argue from time to time. She will think that he is insensitive, while he will see her as a fool.
When it comes to money, they spend and invest it very differently. And this can also cause disagreements. It can be very interesting to watch this couple in case they find a way to explore each other’s strengths.
He can show her how to be more patient. She can teach you how to trust your instincts and believe in yourself more. All in all, these two will have a good chance of being very successful in achieving their goals if they know how to support each other.
Although it looks promising, it does not necessarily mean that this union will be fruitful. Virgo needs his routine and plan everything thoroughly. They are only happy when they can implement a precise and methodical approach.
Aries never has enough patience to pay attention to details. They are impulsive and make decisions based primarily on instinct.
From Astrological Point of View
From an astrological point of view, these two signs can have a difficult time being a couple. They may have a hard time keeping things exciting for Aries because Virgo can be boring. He plans the future, she just wants to live in the moment.
While he wants discipline, she will head on to the next adventure, without thinking about the risks.
Their opposite personalities can lead to serious confrontations. He is cautious and attentive, she is the girl who does not care about the consequences.
It is quite possible that the Aries woman will get very bored in this relationship. Not to mention, she’ll think he’s cold because he has a clear and logical mind. It’s not that Virgo isn’t sentimental, it’s just that they don’t know how to express their feelings.
He will be constantly anxious and nervous around her, wanting to make her happy. When you see how spontaneous and active she can be, you will be discouraged.
When the Virgo man starts to judge the Aries woman for being so reckless, he will be very upset. You will have to cheer her on more often if you want to make her happy.
Long-term relationship and marriage prospects
Virgo man and Aries woman can live happily ever after married life. They have every chance of being a strong couple.
He will give her his sincere love and she will respect him for being so loyal. She will be very impressed when she sees how perfectionist there is in him.
It is a good combination of signs, especially for her because he offers security and comfort. When the Aries woman has all this, she can be herself without any restrictions. It will be appreciated for all your love and support.
If he is in trouble and does not know what to do in a situation, she will manage to calm him with her unconditional love. Your life will be more colorful with her by your side.
Only with your help, you can enjoy different activities. After all, not being boring is one of the special qualities of Aries.
As soon as they get married, these two will start to experience the happiest times of their lives. Since you both want something stable and long-term, chances are good that you will be together forever.
The secret is to overcome your differences and explore only what makes you strong. It is a relationship that both of you could benefit from.
Trust in between them
These two will trust each other because they are both loyal. The more time you spend together, the more you will begin to understand each other. Everything will work fine from the moment they meet.
Aries initiates passion, Virgo man keeps it alive. It may take her a while to understand her love, because she always seems to be busy doing other things. Virgos are so committed to neatness and discipline, they can’t see how someone like an Aries can do things while on the run.
The Virgo man may seem happier when he is single, but deep down he wants a partner who can be with him for life. It is a mutable earth sign. Aries is a fiery cardinal. This means opposite personalities.
One has limits and analyzes everything, the other wants to risk everything and is governed by instinct. If you want to be happy together, you need to understand what unites you and build on that.
The middle ground where these two should play means common interests and the same opinions. If you don’t look for what makes you stronger as a couple, you will end up separated.
How to improve this relationship
This Aries-Virgo bond has low compatibility, but it does not imply that the relationship has its days numbered, you can always improve and achieve a happy life together.
One of the main problems in this couple is how critical the Virgo man can be. He is a person who is ideal to find defects and question his partner for them.
Aries, in her sensitivity, can be greatly affected when criticized. Also, it is difficult for him to admit his defects, therefore this can strongly collide with the Virgo man.
The key to improving this relationship is DIALOGUE. If a problem arises: talk. Never try to hide or silence a problem that really bothers you, because this will end up exploding later and, probably, with worse consequences.
It can also happen that the Virgo is very cold. It is important to talk about this; If he cannot express his love in words, then he must express it in other ways. The Aries woman, often in an aggressive way, must also calm her temperament and learn to understand her partner.
Another Problem
Another problem that can arise in this couple is mutual fatigue, monotony and routine, especially in couples who have been together for a long time. Therefore, one way to improve love is to change, to look for alternatives to routine …
Finding fun and different things to do will help improve your mood. Sometimes simple things can result in big changes, even activities that you had no idea that you both could like: sharing a book and chatting about it, some sports activity together, even growing a plant as a couple … imagine how great that is to wait a few months and that the plant gives a beautiful flower or some fruit. It is a wonderful feeling!
Virgo Man Aries Woman Sexually
Also, fundamental, innovate in bed. Although these signs get along very well, at least initially, on a sexual level; routine in sex can kill the relationship. Talking about sexual tastes, fantasies, and surprise in bed can improve this relationship. The woman must know that the man works differently in bed and, many times what is erotic for him is not for her and vice versa. Therefore detecting what can turn on and drive the other crazy on the sexual plane will help this relationship.
Finally you should know that Aries is usually a sensitive and intelligent woman. Therefore, your partner must treat you like a delicate flower because of your sensitivity and also encourage your intellectual gifts to take advantage of your intelligence.
Advice
The Virgo man may find the Aries woman’s spontaneity and fun, as well as her intelligence, attractive. However, you may find her impulsivity and ego unattractive. On the other hand, the Aries woman may not appreciate the Virgo man’s criticism.
It is common for these differences to bother both of them, but it is important for the Aries woman to feel respected so that she can open up and discuss her problems with him. As she understands that the Virgo man’s criticism is part of her nature, she will begin to take her advice more seriously.
It is positive that the maturity of the Virgo man compensates for the recklessness of the Aries woman. The fact that they have opposite personalities will make her life more diverse and exciting.
Trust is essential in this relationship, as both are loyal. As you spend more time together, you will understand each other more and more. From the moment they meet, things will work out just fine.
Aries initiates her passion, but the Virgo man takes it upon himself to keep her alive. It may take time for him to understand her love, since she always seems to be busy with other activities. Virgos are committed to neatness and discipline, so they don’t understand how someone like Aries can get things done while she’s rushing.
The Virgo man may appear to be happiest when single, but deep down he longs for a partner who will be with him for life. Virgo is a mutable earth sign, while Aries is a cardinal fire sign. This indicates opposite personalities.
One of them is guided by limits and analysis, while the other risks everything and is guided by instinct. To be happy together, you need to understand what unites you and build on that.
The middle ground in which both must play involves common interests and having similar opinions. If you don’t look for what strengthens your relationship, you could end up separated.
Relationship Experiences
Emily
Virgo man was my first love. He was an exchange student. And I am Aries woman obsessed with Virgo man. Our strange relationship lasted about four years.
In the first year I did not love him very much, and he was incredibly generous and showered me with gifts. Everything was wonderful in the bedroom with him. In the second year she fell madly in love, he felt the same thing. Sex was just fantastic. He became the only one in my life.
In the third year he began to move away. I found out that I was cheating, more than once. Because of my love for him, I just could not leave. Finally, in the fourth year, my feelings faded and I was able to break off the relationship. Fortunately, I met the twin man now. Despite the fact that this relationship ended so sadly when I think about him, there are still goosebumps.
Faith
Recently met a Virgo man … we are very similar, in every way. He understands me like no other. It seems to me that I have been waiting for this man all my life. Horoscopes usually write about our incompatibility, but we are ready to die for each other. I really miss when he is not nearby …
Aria
I have been dating a Virgo guy for about 3 years, during which time much has changed in each other. He became more powerful, reckless and impulsive. His features of the Virgo in some places have changed dramatically. He is very faithful and I am madly in love with him. During all this time, there was a lot of heated debate, but we always returned to each other. We are like different poles of magnets.
Chloe
I am Aries woman, married to Virgo man. We have a very deep love for each other, but it lacks passion. He never gives me compliments; but was very surprised at the remark. He works hard and, in general, provides for me and the child. It was very hard to persuade him to marry, even though he loved me. He is very faithful, faithful and sincere. Sometimes guys flirt with me, but I will never trade my true love with my Virgo.
Amy
I’m meeting with the Virgo guy, everything would be fine, but these crazy debates every time push us in different directions. In the bedroom with him sexually everything is fine and always interesting. I love his mystery.
Elizabeth
My Virgo argues with me about everything. Oh god How hard it is to control my temper when he is near!
Caroline
I am Aries and I am 48, met the 37-year-old Virgo. Of all my relationships, the Virgo man was the most loving. He trusts me and always understands. He always speaks very honestly about his feelings. At first, I believed all his words with difficulty, but over time I understood his sincerity. Virgo men are the most loving in the whole world. It allows you to be who you are. Will love you unconditionally. Treat him well and in return you will be a shining star for him.
Jasmine
I am a 36 year old Aries woman, met a 25 year old Virgo guy. It sounds strange, but he stole my heart on the very first night. Next to him, you feel comfortable and loved. I just fell madly in love … it makes my life better every day. True, we sometimes argue about completely stupid things, but in the end these relationships are worth it. I am Aries and sometimes I have to control my behavior very strongly. It is just perfect and I am grateful for life for such a gift.
Compatibility Percentage
Criterion | Degree of compatibility: Aries woman and Virgo man | |
Emotional connection | Average | 3 STARS |
Communication | Below average | 2 STARS |
Trust and dependency | Average | 3 STARS |
Common values | Weak | 1 STAR |
Intimacy and sex | Below average | 2 STARS |