She wanted to take a risk, come what may, but this was not his tactic… Like all women born under masculine Sun signs, which are also ruled by a masculine planet (in this case, Mars), the Aries girl harbors inner doubts about her femininity. Ever since she attended dance school, she has resisted letting her partner lead her. Most of the men she danced with were terrified when she did not allow them to set the cadence and rhythm of their relationships, and since the mystique of male chauvinism is what it is, her “chauvinism” scared them off and led them to seek out a girl willing to play along with their fantasies of superiority. The Ram girl is so honest that she cannot imitate her more submissive Sun-sign sisters, who pretend to allow the man to take the initiative in word and deed, while smiling with amused tolerance behind his back.
After a few cruel experiences that reveal to her that sincerity is not always the best policy when it comes to romance, the female Aries may understandably, and justifiably, begin to suffer some inner trauma as she questions her status as a desirable woman. Then a Cancer man comes to woo her (yes, I said woo her), respectfully, gallantly, like a Prince straight out of a storybook. Not only this, but he makes her laugh a lot, and laughter never fails to lift the Ram’s spirits, sweetening her company. From the start he makes it clear that she excites and thrills him, no matter who walked through the door first, initiated the conversation, or made the first phone call. Finally! Now she can act and speak spontaneously in the presence of a man… and he still loves her. No wonder she finds the experience intoxicating. Perhaps it’s the first time she feels like she’s a member of the opposite sex. When he convinces her that she is not a wicked old hag after all, but is really the beautiful and desirable Snow White (as she always suspected), the experience can be exhilarating—for a time. If there is a harmonious exchange between their luminaries, ascendants, and other major astrological positions of their nativities, there is a good chance that her daydreams will come true. Otherwise, Snow White might find herself living in the forest with only one of the seven dwarves—Grumpy—and forever waiting in vain for the Prince.
The Aries woman will never feel completely at peace with herself until she finds a man willing to love her freely and openly, to not argue over who should initiate the first good-night kiss, to not sulk if she interrupts him with a sudden burst of cheerful, enthusiastic conversation. She needs a man who will understand that if he allows her to develop her own personality, she will supply him with the ecstatic love he needs to feel strong and virile and masculine. Merely murmuring, “Whatever you say—or whatever you decide, darling” (with a hidden smirk) is a form of romantic hypocrisy, a parody of sincere devotion. Her love is direct. It is compressed into nervous frustration when it is restricted by petty arguments about the fundamentals of the difference between masculinity and femininity. She loves him with all her heart and soul and mind and being—isn’t that enough? Yes. That should be enough, and most likely is enough when it comes to a male Crab. But Rams have other areas of friction with Cancers. Both are vehemently jealous. The key difference is that Cancer enjoys jealousy more than Aries. For a Crab, jealousy is nothing more than proof of how much he is loved and needed, and this woman will give him all the proof he needs… and perhaps more than he can handle.
Jealousy can sometimes give the Ram a sense of emotional security, too—in small, sporadic doses. But when it is exaggerated to the point of suffocating domination, it can violently constrict the Aries woman’s cordial, free, and gregarious way of life—and the truth is that the Cancer lover or partner often displays it with excessive authoritarianism, when the stage of gallant festivity is over and he is sure that she belongs to him. Of course, it is equally true that her Crab tendency to persevere, when it comes to love, is a testimony to her propensity for loyalty and fidelity. She certainly does not object to this behavior. In her opinion, it is the least that can be expected of true love. Only when his loyal devotion gradually and subtly transforms into a coupling accompanied by a sense of enclosure, will she have outbursts of resentful rebellion. These two Sun signs are equally fond of money, fame, and recognition. But Crab is better at hiding his ambition. Although they share the same basic goals of emotional security and financial success, they have somewhat conflicting ideas about how to achieve those goals—and about what to do with the money once it’s made. (She wants to spend it, or give it away, to create a nice, steady cash flow—and he wants to save it to build his own.) Differences will surface even before either of them reaches a point of material success. Aries is optimistic, blunt, sure of winning. Cancer is often pessimistic, negative, and fearful of the future (Crabs say this is a sensible attitude of prudence)—and this is where the two of them may need an interpreter to communicate.
The Ram doesn’t understand how the Crab expects to win while also expecting to lose. For Aries, the physician and philosopher Jean-Baptiste Baudin perfectly expressed this enigmatic attitude of Cancer when he wrote: “To desire wealth, and yet always expect poverty; and always doubt your ability to obtain what you desire… is like trying to reach the East by travelling West. There is no philosophy that can help a man to succeed when he is always doubting his ability to do so, and therefore attracts failure.” It is true that in the Who’s Who of industry and commerce there are more people born in July than in any other month (except for Bulls and Capricorns), but that is because Cancer has more than enough of an element to replace the courageous Aries optimism: a hard shell of tenacity. It is no use trying to explain this to an Aries woman. She is familiar with a term like “determination,” but she doesn’t understand the word “tenacity,” because it is diametrically opposed to her most obvious quality: impatience. Being tenacious involves waiting, and this woman hates waiting for anything: the bus, the red light, or her lover’s arrival at the door when they have a date–or her husband’s arrival after work, if she is married to a Ram. If he is five minutes late, she will phone the police station in an impulsive panic, or she will pace like a caged beast, working up enough anger to spring upon him with a torrent of reproaches when he finally arrives. Her Cancer lover or partner’s general attitude toward ambition and success, with or without tenacity, completely perplexes her.
She believes in simple things. For example, that people should look where they want to go, and she looks east. How can he possibly think that he will get to New York if he goes to California? All right, the world is round, and maybe he will get there eventually, but it will take a long time by that route. The dilemma has several possible outcomes. She may feel desolate in the face of the Crab’s melancholy fits of depression, and may finally decide that he must escape, to avoid the fate of seeing every last one of his fiery ambitions submerged in the watery pessimism of Cancer. Or she may try to pull him out of his periodic gloom with her strong Martian faith, cheering him up with courage and humor and reminding him, for example, of the old proverb that a sheep loses a mouthful of hay every time it bleats. He may be defeated by her impulsive emotions and extravagance, and may set off alone with his stamp collection and his old bucket hat—or he may gently and patiently teach her that sometimes caution has merit, and that the advantage of counting to ten is that the total sum is never zero. Another point of friction may lie in his tendency to keep secrets. The Aries woman is not as much made in the image of the Sphinx as he is. When the Crab refuses to tell her what he is thinking, she is apt to imagine all sorts of extravagant things, and torture herself into a fit of Martian hysteria.
He will soon learn (hopefully) that in the long run it is better to tell her the whole truth, in order to live in peace. Be honest. If he closes off, she will dig until she finds his efforts futile, and then decide that the enterprise is not worth the waste of energy and suffering… and possibly leave him. Suddenly. With little or no warning. Remember that Aries will not waste his time in the context of a situation that, according to his analysis, is impossible to correct. In the end, the Crab may continue to keep his secrets while she walks away. He will cry. To top it off, there is Mom. If his mother is alive, the Ram girl who loves the Crab boy may feel that her devotion and attention are bitterly contested, and while the conflict may not surface at the first meeting, it cannot be put off indefinitely. If his saintly mother is dead, her virtues will probably take on an additional luster, seen through the glittering glass of memory. Did his mother never sing a shirt, never bake a bad cake, never sing out of tune, never squander money, or get cranky? No. Never. Not once. Did his mother always thrifty, make herself pretty by sewing her own clothes, shell his beans, use just the right amount of makeup, and know exactly how to make him smile when he was gloomy? Yes. Indeed. Always. Paradoxically, the mother complex may work to their advantage. Certainly such an outstanding example implies a challenge, and this girl cannot resist the temptation to combatively meet a challenge. She may become as perfect a being as he believes his mother is—or was—just to prove to him that no one can outdo a Ram.
They will also need to make adjustments in their sex life. When love blossoms, his tender consideration of her wants and needs will make her feel very loved, and therefore emotionally secure. (They both experience that incredible trauma of needing emotional security.) At first he will be a fabulous lover. Cancer can be as imaginative, subtle, and intelligent in the bedroom as he is at the bank. Her openness and candor about all things sexual, and her relative unconscious vulnerability, will touch the Crab deeply. Whatever her past experiences, the Aries girl always brings a kind of fresh innocence to her lovemaking. Moreover, when she loves, she loves vehemently and passionately, and she really gives her whole self with absolute honesty, which will make him feel emotionally secure. But when he’s moody and sullen for a few days and ignores her affectionate advances, she may fail to remember the thrill of their initial physical compatibility. What she (mistakenly) sees as a sign of rejection can dampen her erotic enthusiasm considerably. It’s the Moon. She must simply wait for the Moon to change and stop tossing his emotions around like a floating log. What she must not do during these passing lunar phases that threaten to overshadow her bliss is to become angry and utter hurtful words that she will later regret. He will crawl into his Crab shell and stay there, because he is very sensitive.
He is, though he jokes a great deal about it—and a sexual affront will send him into long periods of melancholy passivity. Or worse, he may seek solace in the seductive siren song of alcohol. On the bright side of their relationship, the Crab can be very funny and entertaining, and can turn every activity into a revel, whether it be counting money or digging for clams. His beautiful sensitivity and chivalrous protective air can bring out all the femininity in his Aries lady. He will be secretly proud of her intellectual prowess and dazzling spirit, though he grumbles at her immaturity, and he will make a habit of looking to her for the spiritual support he needs whenever the Moon haunts him with fragments of his old childhood fears. On the negative side, she may sometimes judge him too harsh, too fussy, or too stingy, and he may think the arcane is not capable of taking care of itself without the help of a guardian. He might occasionally drown his disillusionment in alcohol, which is always a very real danger when dealing with a Water sign… and she might occasionally let herself be carried away by his fiery and irritable character to such an extent that she will need a long time to atone for the damage caused.
This is a man who is not ashamed of his feelings. He is moved by music, art, and poetry, and when he is moved, his eyes fill with tears. And this is a woman whose heart needs a lot of tender loving care, because, whatever her chronological age, she is, emotionally, a newborn. If they cross her Arian initiative with his Cancerian tenacity, they can work miracles. Their natal Suns are square, so they will need a lot of patience… and a lot of love. But don’t they always need each other?
Cancer Man Obsessed with Aries Woman
The horoscope gives the Aries Cancer bond a certain compatibility, especially for an adventure and very sexual relationship… but it may be complicated in the long run.
They both have very different ways of seeing and thinking about the world which makes the relationship difficult to last over time.
At first the bond seems perfect and the attraction is mutual, but over time the big differences will come to light.
The Aries woman can feel rejected on a sexual level many times by the Cancer man, something that occurs because of the Cancer sign’s mood swings and not so much because he is not interested. The Cancer man tends to worry or sulk often, and the woman must detect when she is approaching him at such a time and act intelligently: do not pressure him, do not rush him… the years of relationship can give you a good eye to know how to get him out of that state.
The Aries woman is usually dominant, she likes to take the helm of the ship, something that the Cancer man very much dislikes, who also wants to dominate and be the boss. This is also something that makes the relationship very difficult… someone will have to give in.
The Cancer man is sensitive, but he will never show that he is suffering, nor does he say what he really thinks.
Sharing the magic of the zodiac: The passionate fusion of Aries woman and Cancer man
As a speaker specializing in astrology and relationships, I have had the privilege of witnessing countless love stories that defy expectations. One of the most fascinating took place a few years ago, when an Aries woman and a Cancer man met and their romance became a powerful fusion of emotions and passion.
I met Maria, a bold and energetic Aries woman, during a motivational talk where she was talking about zodiac sign compatibility. After the conference, she approached me and told me that she was looking for a long-term relationship, but she had always faced love challenges. I recommended she explore the possibility of a relationship with Cancer men, whose emotional and protective characteristics could complement her fiery fire.
A few months later, María attended another of my talks and this time she was accompanied by Alejandro, a handsome Cancer man she had recently met. It was clear how they radiated happiness and connection, and they invited me over for coffee to share their story.
Alejandro confessed to me that he had felt a strong attraction towards María from the first moment he saw her. Although at first he felt some insecurity due to the differences between her personalities, he decided to listen to her intuition and open himself to the possibility of a relationship with her.
During our talk, María and Alejandro explained to me how each had learned to value the other’s peculiarities and turn them into strengths. Maria appreciated Alejandro’s sensitivity and care, something that led her to feel protected in her relationship. For his part, Alejandro stated that Maria’s passion and courage inspired and challenged him to grow as a person.
Both supported each other in their dreams and projects, building together a unique dynamic of balance and understanding. They learned to communicate openly and listen to each other in times of stress, ensuring a solid foundation for their relationship.
This experience left a mark on me, reminding me once again of the magic of love compatibility between seemingly opposite zodiac signs. Maria and Alejandro’s unbreakable union showed that if we are willing to open ourselves to new perspectives, we can find love in the most unexpected places.
Since then, I have committed to continuing to share these inspiring stories with those who attend my motivational talks or read my specialized books. Because, at the end of the day, we all deserve to find someone who loves us for who we are and challenges us to be the best version of ourselves.
What is this love bond like in general?
The connection between Aries woman and Cancer man can be quite compatible, especially in terms of adventure and sexuality. However, long-term complications are possible due to fundamental differences in their ways of seeing and thinking about the world.
At first, the relationship may seem perfect and the mutual attraction is evident. However, as time passes, it is likely that the vast differences that exist between them will be revealed.
The Aries woman may feel sexually rejected by the Cancer man on several occasions, due to the mood swings typical of Cancer and not necessarily because he is not interested. The Cancer man tends to worry and get angry frequently, and the woman must learn to recognize when he is in that emotional state and act intelligently. With time and experience, one can develop an eye for how to help their partner through those difficult times.
It is important to note that the Aries woman tends to be dominant and likes to take control in a relationship, something that may displease the Cancer man, who also has his desire to be the leader. This desire for power can make the relationship very difficult, and one of the two will have to learn to give in and adapt.
On the other hand, the Cancer man is a sensitive individual but tends to hide his emotions and thoughts instead of expressing them sincerely.
In my experience, I have observed that Aries and Cancer relationships can be challenging but also full of learning and growth if both parties are willing to communicate openly and honestly and find a balance between their differences. With proper communication and mutual commitment, these couples can overcome obstacles and build a strong, long-lasting relationship.
The relationship of fire with water
Cancer is a water sign, while Aries is a fire sign. The combination of the watery Cancer and the flaming Aries can result in tranquility or burns, or sometimes both.
While an Aries woman is very spontaneous with her opinions and reactions, a Cancer man takes time to express his feelings or to leap forward in a relationship. This shyness of a Cancer man makes him go about his business and support himself most of the time.
A Cancer man is a hard-working soul who would achieve long-term name, fame, and money with his solid determination and perseverance. While in love, a Cancer man loves to be possessed and passionately loved by his Aries woman. He is a man who would stick to you despite being rude and who would remain almost loyal throughout your life. This quality of a Cancer man is the most loved and appreciated by his Aries woman.
So also an Aries woman is very reckless and careless in her nature and this attitude of hers can sometimes hurt the sensitive Cancer man.
An Aries woman is a stubborn woman who would first of all face all obstacles in her life and who would do her best to discover the obstacles in her life.
She is an impulsive woman who may seem inconsiderate to some, but in reality, an Aries woman can never hurt anyone. If your Cancer man can see through your recklessness, he will find an innocent woman whom he will love forever.
An Aries woman is also very moody and this could cause some depression in her Cancer man.
An Aries woman proves to be a great woman of substance to her Cancer husband. She makes him feel strong and masculine. She also manages to shake off his hidden fears and dive into risky zones with her backing.
An Aries woman has an optimistic approach to winning and this gives her man a lot of confidence. She makes him feel protective and he, in turn, becomes more attached to his Aries woman.
The secrets of the Cancer man
The only major flaw in their relationship is the secret nature of the Cancer man. He prefers to keep many secrets between the two of them and this nature of his can make his Aries woman explode with anger and accusations.
Initially, the Aries woman might seem self-centered and outrageous to the Cancerian man, but slowly over the years, you would realize that she has no intention of harming anyone and it is her nature that makes her behave in a particular way.
The Cancer man is a gentleman who can shower his Aries woman with so much affection and love, that she will feel delighted frequently. It makes her feel desirable. They both manage to produce the best for each other.
She makes him laugh and he brings out his real inner self to the outside world. With a Cancer man by her side, an Aries woman can let her hair down and feel at peace with herself.
She doesn’t need to pretend or be on guard. A Cancer man will always adore his Aries woman throughout his life, but he has his mood swings.
Understand the need for mutual space
The Aries woman should understand her need for space and leave it alone whenever she is going through one of her moods. The same applies to the Aries woman as well. The Cancer man should leave her alone whenever he finds her distant or agitated. Sometimes, in such situations, all she needs is space.
In a relationship, the two combine very well and can create miracles, which is quite unusual as it is the combination of fire and water.
A Cancer man is able to protect his Aries woman under her cozy blanket of care and protection. He makes her feel feminine and almost cares for her like a father cares for his child.
An Aries woman can also make her Cancer man feel loved and devoted and accompany him as a pillar by her side. With an Aries woman by his side, a Cancer man is always optimistic, enthusiastic, and passionate about life.
Hers seems like a Mills & Boons romance in which the Aries woman continues to pursue her dreams and finally finds fulfillment with her Prince Charming – the Cancer man.
The problems between them
Cancer man is in love with the strong personality, feminine qualities, confidence, and outspokenness of the Aries woman.
Cancer man is also very intuitive. He can see many insecurities within the strong outer shield that an Aries woman wears. If you are in love with her, you want to protect her, make her feel safe, pamper her, and shower her with attention and care. He feels that if he makes her feel safe, she will put aside her need to win, and will be tamed under his soft and affectionate blanket of love. He wants to tame her for her own good and not for any selfish interest.
An Aries woman, on the other hand, will be impressed by her romantic side, but initially it will be difficult to tame herself with the water sign. She is a fire sign after all and will feel suffocated with too much attention. She is happy in her own skin.
Only later, after love develops between the two, will she understand the need to protect her and will eagerly agree. If they fall in love with each other, it is genuine and durable for sure.
Cancer Man loves her for her positive attitude and the Aries woman is blessed to be with a supportive partner.
He will never stop her from following her dreams or he will never tie her up to household responsibilities. Cancer Man supports Aries Woman, courts her, and falls in love with her as her Prince Charming.
Cancer Man Aries Woman Sexually
It would be interesting to compare their love relationship with the balance between fire and ice. This can be deciphered without difficulty.
In intimacy, there is great sexual compatibility and both experience lasting pleasure without any problem. A Cancer man provides his partner with a sense of emotional security and desirability in bed.
An Aries woman is like a burning fire that requires imagination and innovation to satisfy her sexual appetite.
A Cancer man is intelligent and imaginative in bed, which excites the Aries woman.
During sex, an Aries woman appears completely innocent and vulnerable, which awakens the deepest emotions in a Cancer man.
Although she seems innocent, at the same time she is fierce and passionate in bed. Her ferocity and passion come from love and not just sexual desire. The Cancer man craves her passion more and more.
The only flaw in her sexual compatibility arises from the Cancer man’s mood swings. If he is not in the mood, he may shy away from her partner’s sexual advances, which can irritate the Aries woman and make her forget about the strong sexual connection they used to have.
In a relationship, the Aries woman and Cancer man enjoy loving each other and being loved by each other. The Aries woman can demand love, while the Cancer man is more emotional and sentimental.
Sexually, there is also a strong compatibility. Although at times the Aries woman can be dominant in bed, she eventually learns sensitivity and emotional depth from her Cancer partner.
Very important: trust
The foundation of your relationship is built on a solid foundation of mutual trust, which is vital for any relationship to thrive. Although the Aries woman can be a bit flirtatious at times, the Cancer man understands that her intention is not to hurt him or mean anything serious. This mutual understanding allows them to maintain a strong and stable connection.
The Cancer man feels very safe when he is with her. He provides warmth, kindness, and a safe haven so that she feels protected and loved. On the other hand, the Aries woman demonstrates unwavering fidelity towards him. They both know that they can fully trust each other and this gives them a sense of mutual emotional security.
It is important to note that although the Aries woman has immense love for her family, she may not have as deep-rooted parenting instincts as the Cancer man. In this sense, as a couple and potentially as a family, she could face challenges related to family dynamics and parenting roles.
As an astrological relationship therapist, I can tell you that these discrepancies are not insurmountable. Open communication and mutual commitment can help you find solutions and establish a balance in your relationship. It is important that both are willing to listen to each other and understand the needs and perspectives of the other.
Remember that each relationship is unique and is influenced by multiple factors. Astrology can give you guidance and a deeper understanding of your couple dynamic, but at the end of the day, you are the protagonists and have the power to forge your own path together.
How to improve the relationship?
The Aries-Cancer bond has relatively good compatibility.
It’s a relationship that usually starts off very well, especially in bed, but unexpected problems can arise in the long run. These problems are not seen at first because of the great passion that united them, but they were probably there waiting to come to light.
The key to improving this relationship is DIALOGUE. If a problem arises: talk. Never try to hide or silence a problem that really bothers you, because this will end up exploding later and, probably, with worse consequences.
Another very important point is the family and friends plane. Being liked by your partner’s family and friends can help you, in ways that you didn’t expect! Gaining the trust of your partners social environment will help you detect problems and, additionally, they will help you solve them. They know your partner better than anyone; they may even know him better than you.
The Aries and the Cancer have very different ways of seeing the world. Sometimes they will not agree on many issues, therefore they should take this naturally and never confront unimportant issues.
Mood swings in both can also cause problems. Perhaps they are less noticeable in her, but she also has them. They must solve this problem separately. Humor for both is something internal and very personal.
The Cancer man tends to worry or sulk often, and the woman must detect when she is at such a moment and act intelligently: not pressure him, nor rush him.
Another problem that can arise, especially in long-term relationships, is running away from or denying problems. This is more usual for him, but she is not far behind; many times she hushes up the real problem and it can flare up elsewhere and for any other reason. It is important to be honest with each other, as the popular phrase says, the first step to solving a problem is to admit it. The Cancer man is sensitive, but he will never show that he is suffering, nor does he say what he really thinks.
Finally you should know that Aries is usually a sensitive and intelligent woman. Therefore, your partner must treat you like a delicate flower, because of your sensitivity; and also encourage your intellectual gifts to ensure that your intelligence is utilized well for all-round growth development, well-being, and fulfillment of life’s purpose.
Bottom Line
If you work out your minor differences, this is a great relationship that keeps you both happy. For both of them, the compatibility manages to stay strong in rough waters and they both feel lucky to be with each other.
They are both extremely possessive of each other. This quality helps them stay close.
The Aries woman neutralizes the Cancer man’s pessimism and delays it every time she feels like running to achieve her dreams. She also helps him out of his shell and he gives her security. Together, they blend wonderfully.
Relationship Experiences
Anna
I am Aries, my husband is Cancer. We have been together for over 16 years. There were times when we did not get along, but every year our love becomes stronger. Cancer sign has sharp mood swings. They are quite frequent and at such moments it is really difficult to understand what this person needs for complete happiness. Over all these years, I learned to understand his different moods. In general, even though our signs are not compatible, we are proof that the union can be long.
Nootka
I am Aries woman, husband is Cancer. I love him with all my heart, but at times I feel that I hate. He can be sweet and romantic, does everything right and speaks beautifully. But if I mow something he is very angry and annoyed. At such moments, I feel like a naughty child who has been put in a corner. After the debate ends, I understand that I really love this person and do not want to be with anyone except him. Yes, we are very different and think differently, but we help each other to see the other side of the coin. Yes, he can be controlling and sometimes even cruel, but in essence he is caring and loving.
Stas
I am a Cancer sign man, I love an Aries sign girl. Honestly, she is stubborn! But she is very loving and caring. She likes to play a lot of words and love games. You can go crazy with her… in a good way.
Lenka
I am an Aries girl, meeting a guy with Cancer sign. For a long time we were just friends, almost 6 years. We were just like-minded people. Of course, he has small mood swings, but I can calm him down and make him happier. He is very kind, gentle, and sensitive; he understands me better than anyone else.
Alyonka
I have been dating a cancer sign guy for 4 months, he can sometimes be moody, and secretive, easily offended. BUT, in general, he is a cutie. Everything is just amazing in bed. I’m glad that I met such a man, together we just enjoy life.
Masha
Ha ha. I have been dating a cancer zodiac man for 3 years. I can’t imagine how we lived together for so many years. In any case, he does not have sharp mood swings like many cancers, but he is very sensitive. He is the best lover and an understanding person among all those who I have met. He may be secretive. My words often offend him quickly, especially in moments of debate. On the whole, he has a very calming effect on me, and on the contrary I invigorate him. Even if we are not compatible with horoscopes, this union works!
Katya
I’m meeting a cancer zodiac sign man, honestly I can say that there are NO mood swings. He loves me as a child. He’s very caring, and attentive. Friends for about 3 years. Now we are going to give birth to a baby. He is a homely man and it drives me crazy because I like to go out and take a walk, go on adventures etc.. He likes to sit at home all day. This is some kind of broken Cancer. He has no carapace and he just has nowhere to hide, so he tells me absolutely everything. Everything is fine in bed, I don’t understand why most of the people say that this combination is so bad.
Nicky
Me and my cancer man have been together for a year. I can say that this was not the easiest time. In the beginning there was an incredible obsession, love was so strong that I could not believe it. He was always so sweet and romantic, but that was in the first few months; after those months he became moody.
In disputes he always switched to an imperious tone. Very sensitive, he felt offended with every word; and with my sharp tongue it always leads to trouble. Despite this, after disputes I feel that I love him. His whims often turn into anger and all this spills over me. I love him anyway and will never let go.
Sasha
I wonder how long my relationship with the Cancer man will last. His mood swings is something serious. I don’t understand why it is so hard for him to tell me what is on his mind. He treats me like a child. Of course I can sometimes behave this way, but this is sometimes characteristic of Aries. I like to communicate with people, but for him this is a problem, especially if my interlocutor is a man. He is always offended, and I have to apologize. He is incredibly fragile and delicate but I love him a lot.
Compatibility Percentage
| Criterion | Degree of compatibility: Aries woman and Cancer man | |
| Emotional connection | Average | 3 STARS |
| Communication | Below average | 2 STARS |
| Trust and dependency | Strong | 4 STARS |
| Common values | Very strong | 5 STARS |
| Intimacy and sex | Average | 3 STARS |