I don’t want to shatter any dreams involving the glass sandal, but this combination usually works best when the girl is the Fish and the man is the Ram. The Aries woman needs a resolute, invulnerable man who has the aggression to say, “Shut up and listen,” when needed. And with this girl, that will surely be needed, from time to time. Of course, there are, as always, exceptions that prove the astrological rule. For example, a Pisces man, with his Moon or Ascendant in a Fire sign, such as Aries, Sagittarius, or Leo, can possess just the right combination of fiery authority and gentleness of manner needed to transform this wild little thing into a woman as gentle as a lamb. Well, maybe not as gentle, but more docile and manageable than she would be in her relationships with most other men. To a certain extent, this is what she secretly seeks and craves: someone who will firmly control her (and make her feel feminine) on occasion. Someone who lets her rule (half the time) and who is the sweet, charming prince of her dreams (the rest of the time, a lot or a little). She needs a big, strong brother to protect her, a partner she considers her equal in intelligence, a lover who will conquer her physically, a calm man who will not try to imprison her spirited personality or dominate her. She would also be pleased if he were a poet.
And of course he must be willing and even eager to defend her loyally against her enemies (until she forgives them, at which point he must love them), just as she will defend him against his (whether he wants her to or not). And let’s see… yes, he must also admire and respect her, and tell her so often, and he must be the kind of man who likes to repair things when they break (including her heart), and he must be able to face an emergency with aplomb and a crisis with great courage. He must have, indeed, impeccable integrity, and his sexual loyalty to her must be pure as a snowflake. (But he must not be a doormat, nor overly modest.)
Come to think of it, the Pisces man has about as much chance as anyone else of living up to the Aries girl’s romantic ideals: None. Which means that at least he’s starting out on an even playing field. You know what? The Fish certainly couldn’t ask for better odds than these. The Ram girl is fun and vivacious. She’s pretty and impetuous, overflowing with enthusiasm and sparky and tender and generous… all of it. But she needs to be reined in from time to time, when her Martian willpower causes her to be too lively and free-spirited to the detriment of her own well-being… or the peace of mind of the man who loves her. Pisces men are never very convincing when they say things like, “Shut up and listen.” The Fish is most in his element when he’s pondering abstract physics or mathematical theories, calculating the relativity of time to space… or reciting poems. It is possible for the Ram and the Fish to meet, join together, and whisper sentimental words into each other’s ears, happily, for a lifetime. It can happen. Not often. But it can happen. What has become of their faith in miracles?
The Pisces man is more likely than anyone else to sincerely believe in the kind of spell that every Aries girl is under, and that every Aries girl romantically claims. She will adore him for it. She will trust his dreams, have faith in his visions—and react (at least at first) with fits of excitement to his displays of sensitivity and sweetness. Later she will experience an irresistible need to defend him from those who unjustly accuse him of being an idle dreamer with no future. (She will simply have countless opportunities to vent this need!) Most people have been so brainwashed by astrological oversimplification that they believe every Pisces is a weak-kneed candidate for joining Alcoholics Anonymous or participating in group therapy sessions (naked group therapy, given the age in which we live). True, she was born under a complicated and difficult Sun sign. When he was born, the stars foretold that he would have to navigate his way through a haze of fantasy. He was also destined to become entangled in the sticky tentacles of other people’s problems as he swam through life… doing his best to mind his own business (which can be even more intricate and confusing).
His ruling planet, Neptune, seems to constantly lead him into situations so mysterious, so laced with intrigue and partial truths that not even a spiritualistic writing tablet could get to the bottom of the tangle. This goes for Pisces of both sexes. The Aries girl who is bewildered by her Pisces man’s evasive nature should ask herself how she would react if she were part of what some smug astrologers call “the garbage dump of the Zodiac.” It’s not much fun to be burdened with the knowledge that you are the embodiment of all eleven other Sun signs. And this man is burdened with the added burden of frequent precognitive flashes that populate his consciousness. To top it off, his Neptune-like compassion can seduce him into some situations that can only be described as bizarre. This forces him to hide behind a series of false facades the fact that he is the most vulnerable individual in town. Such facades can range from eccentricity and bad temper to drunkenness… to a psychedelic trip like no other (and a trip off the rails of this cruel world). But many creative writers, imaginative artists, and abstract thinkers (like Einstein) have also been Pisces, and have learned to manage their Neptune vibrations. This man can choose between a number of currents, you know? This happens to all Fishes, when they step away from the chaotic whirlpools. The danger implicit in a relationship between an Aries woman and a Pisces man is that the sexes tend to blend together. The Fish man can be as masculine, virile, and muscular as they come. But he is also overly sensitive… for his manhood. The Ram woman can be as feminine, tender, and seductive as they come. But she is also stubborn, headstrong, and independent… for her womanhood. Because of his instinctive tendency to shy away from conflict, the Pisces man may prefer to retreat rather than face the Fire of the Aries woman. She won’t like this.
Rams feel helpless, and even more enraged, when forced to shadow box to get out of a disagreement. Being ignored can drive an Aries woman frantic, and Pisces are experts in the technique of passive non-resistance. She may also dislike his reluctance to deal with others. She doesn’t understand how one person can endure so much without flinching. And he doesn’t understand how one person can be constantly on the alert, fighting and attacking and counterattacking and expending so much energy. His meekness, taken to extremes, can cause her to finally lose her patience and lash out at him with some hurtful, cruel remarks that don’t reflect her true thoughts but can still hurt him deeply. Virtually any minor incident can trigger a scene like this:
PISCES: My paintings are being exhibited at the Museum Art Exhibition next week. See? Here’s the program. It says, “Special Showcase of New Art Forms.”
ARIES: Are they talking about an artist or an animal? That can’t be you.
PISCES: I guess they misunderstood my last name, and maybe “Guan” is a typo. I’ve been wondering what I’m going to do…
ARIES: Don’t tell me what you’re going to do. Don’t tell me, let me guess. You’re going to change your name, aren’t you?
PISCES: Well, I hadn’t thought of going that far. Do you think that’s what I should do?
ARIES: I think you should confront the art director of that museum and say, “Hey, moron, they misspelled my name. If you don’t print new programs, I’m going to pull my paintings from the show.”
PISCES: Oh, I couldn’t insult him like that. He might be offended and then I would lose the great opportunity to exhibit my paintings.
ARIES: Well, if you don’t, you’ll lose the great opportunity to exhibit me as your wife. I WILL NOT ALLOW THE MUSEUM TO PRESENT ME AS THE “LADY OF GUANACO”, SO EITHER YOU FACE THE ART DIRECTOR AND CLAIM YOUR RIGHT TODAY… OR TOMORROW I WILL DISAPPEAR FROM YOUR LIFE. DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
He won’t refuse. He’ll agree with her and head off to the museum. But he may not come back. He’d rather be Guan Aco than a fly caught in Mars’ web. Of course, this is an extreme case. It also illustrates the conflicts and obstacles that must be faced when there is a reversal of the dominant-passive roles between two lovers. If there is a compatible Sun-Moon-ascendant aspect between their birth charts, their relationship can work out under ideal conditions. She’ll have enough Fire to inflame him and propel him to great achievements, to instill in him faith in himself and his dreams… and he’ll have just the right amount of Water to calm and soothe her fears, to provide her emotional security. The threads of the Aries woman are finer than those who see only her superficial confidence suspect. She’s much more than a ball of fire charged with momentum. It is the poem that the Pisces man tried to write, but could not quite complete it… though he might complete it, if he would let her help him write the last verse. Their sexual relationship will be the eternal and beautiful mutual attraction between explosive activity and cold immobility. But it can also be the attraction that a potential conqueror exerts on a potential victim, if there are serious planetary disagreements in their respective horoscopes. However, with favorable planetary exchanges in their nativities, the Ram and the Fish can enjoy an exceptionally happy interpersonal chemistry, capable of surviving periodic fights or hurt feelings. Their philosophical approaches to life may be different, but their romantic goals are identical. Both are desperate for a very intense sexual experience… and both are sentimental and imaginative. By expressing their love through sexual union, they can materialize their respective secret fantasies, they can retreat into their own private chimerical world, and they can close the door to the rest of the world.
The Pisces man who wants to teach the Aries woman to float peacefully in his pond must make the decision to be honest with her about everything, and then he must stick to it. His penchant for keeping secrets and telling half-truths so as not to offend her feelings (or his) is something this woman will never tolerate. She lays all her cards on the table, and she cannot trust a player who hides a few aces up his sleeve. Unless the Fish is willing to be 100 percent truthful with her in every way, he’d better find another partner. If one day he discovers that he can’t hide anything from her, not even his most intimate feelings, and that he is obliged to confess all his secret desires… it’s because he loves her. This is the first sign of capitulation in the Pisces man. It is not, however, a guarantee that he will capitulate to the end and go through with marriage. This man is very reluctant to take on the complications of emotional and legal commitment. As far as he’s concerned, dealing with the first is hard enough without the need to burden himself with the second. Neptune’s usual definition of marriage is “an intimate friendship, acknowledged by the police.” He’ll eventually take the bait and let himself be reeled in, but he’ll struggle less in the marital net if the Aries woman pretends they’re still having an affair that the police don’t acknowledge. I know a real, living, breathing Pisces man who replaced family with a Siamese cat. The Cat’s Fish has an oft-repeated motto: “Cat food is cheaper than diapers.” The Ram girl must make her Fish believe that they’re only involved in an emotional union, and nothing more, even after they’re formally married (she must never use the term “married” in front of him, which can be given a very different meaning by changing an s to a z). If this fiction makes him feel more romantic, happy and free, why not let him live out the chimera of his single life? He may alternate between leaving her and coming back once more, not quite knowing how to convince her of his devotion. But all she wants is to be loved and understood, never questioned… accepted as she is. In truth, this is what he wants, too. The only dragons that rise between Aries and Pisces are, on the one hand, his Neptune illusions, illusions that, for him, are reality… and, on the other hand, her Martian reality, which is, indeed, an illusion. Added to this are the problems of his passivity and her impatience… and their mutually sensitive, vulnerable natures. No outsider can help them by killing these dragons. They must kill them from within. That is always the way it is done in fairy tales. At least in the ones with a happy ending.
Pisces Man Obsessed with Aries Woman
The horoscope gives the Aries Woman and Pisces Man bond a good compatibility. They can also form a very good friendship bond. Although they have certain characteristics that can make them collide as a couple, they have a good compatibility overall.
Both signs have needs that they cannot satisfy in each other. The Pisces man does not decide easily, he is indecisive by nature. This is something that the Aries woman does not like because she is feisty and dominant by nature. Do Aries women need someone who has decision-making powers? Yes! But she also needs a part of the domain of decision making left to her as well.
Sexually they can get along very well, but this does not guarantee a good relationship as a couple.
The magical encounter between Aries Woman and Pisces Man
During one of my couples therapy sessions, I came across a case that perfectly exemplified the surprising love compatibility between the Aries woman and the Pisces man. Violeta, a self-confident and energetic woman, had begun a relationship with Gabriel, a calm and sensitive man who believed in eternal love.
The first meeting between them was completely accidental. Violeta, while hurriedly walking through the streets of the city, unexpectedly collided with Gabriel, who was absorbed in her thoughts. The impact was enough for their eyes to meet and they were instantly captivated by her gaze.
From that moment on, they began to get to know each other and discover the magic that surrounded them. Violeta found in Gabriel a loving confidante, someone capable of listening and understanding her on a deep level. For her part, Gabriel was fascinated by Violeta’s determination and adventurous spirit, something that would have been terrifying under any other circumstance.
Together, they embarked on an exciting emotional journey. Violeta awakened a creative and artistic side in Gabriel that she was unaware of, while he taught her the importance of empathy and compassion. Although they clashed in certain ways, they found a way to balance each other out and grow together.
However, it was not all a fairy tale. Violeta’s impetuous nature could sometimes be overwhelming for Gabriel, who preferred to take things slowly. Also, their different ways of communicating sometimes led to misunderstandings and conflicts. Given this, they used my support as a therapist to learn to adapt and find solutions that would strengthen their relationship.
Throughout our sessions, I watched her love blossom and grow stronger. They learned to value the unique qualities each brought to the relationship and to find a balance between action and reflection. Together, they became a powerful team that could take on any obstacle thrown their way.
Finally, I can say with certainty that the love compatibility between an Aries woman and a Pisces man is a perfect mix of passion and tenderness. When these signs meet on the path of love, magic and harmony are present, creating a love story that can transcend any barrier.
The Connection
The moment these two signs meet, reality is basically altered!
That this pair actually works is a matter of willpower, a huge dose of optimism and enthusiasm (which they have), and a visionary perspective (they have a lot of that too).
While Pisces individuals are basically psychic and can read a situation clearly in just a fraction of a second, their partners are incredibly and sometimes even unrealistically self-confident, for no reason at all, but simply because they can.
Is it feasible? If so, then Aries will fully believe that they can do it. It doesn’t matter if no one else has done it before, or if it’s incredibly difficult to pull off. With enough effort, they can do it… or so they think.
However, there is a big problem with this couple, and it comes from Pisces to hide things from everyone else, and this includes hiding things from their partner.
It’s not that they don’t trust them, but it’s in their nature to keep some things to themselves, not share them with anyone.
How is this love bond in general?
According to the horoscope, the combination of Aries and Pisces can generate a solid and positive friendship, but as a couple they can find challenges due to certain characteristics inherent to each sign.
A Pisces man tends to be indecisive by nature, which can cause conflict with the Aries woman. Ariana, on the other hand, is feisty and dominant, and needs someone who also has the ability to make decisions, while still allowing her to have a degree of dominance.
It is important to note that satisfying mutual needs is key to a successful relationship, and in this case it can be a challenge to find that balance. Knowing personal needs and preferences can be a good starting point to find solutions and compromises that allow a harmonious relationship between both.
As for the sexual connection, the horoscope indicates a possible compatibility between Aries and Pisces. However, it is essential to remember that the sexual aspect alone does not guarantee an overall satisfying relationship.
In my experience as a couples therapist, I have noticed that astrology can provide interesting insights into the dynamics of a relationship, but it is important to remember that each individual is unique and that compatibility is built through communication, mutual respect and work together to meet the needs of both.
It is essential that each couple know each other deeply, understand their own desires and aspirations, and strive to understand and respect those of the other. Openness and a willingness to grow and evolve together can be key to overcoming any challenge that arises in a relationship.
The symbols of these signs
When we talk about the compatibility between Pisces and Aries in astrological terms, we can see that both signs have different but complementary characteristics.
Pisces, represented by a Fish, is known for his generosity and empathy towards others. They are selfless and extremely emotional people, willing to go above and beyond for those they love. However, their kindness can be taken advantage of, as they often put their partner on a pedestal and neglect their own needs. This attitude can leave them feeling dissatisfied and resentful in the long term.
On the other hand, Aries, represented by the Ram, is a self-confident and courageous sign. Although they may appear tough on the outside, they are sensitive and care deeply for the people they love. They seek approval and validation from others, often striving to fit in with the crowd.
When Pisces and Aries get together, they instantly become good friends. Although they don’t have much in common, Pisces is a good listener, and Aries needs someone to listen.
For Pisces and Aries to survive as a couple, it is important that they both recognize and accept their differences. Pisces needs to learn to set limits and take care of her own needs, instead of sacrificing himself completely for her partner. Aries, for her part, must learn to be more aware of Pisces’ emotions and show empathy when necessary. If both signs work on their communication and commitment to each other, they can overcome their differences and have a long-lasting and satisfying relationship.
Trust Between Them
It is difficult for sensitive Pisces to ignore the signals being emitted by Aries because of their confident demeanor, attractive, straightforward demeanor, and libido. The degree of their confidence will immediately change as a result. For as long as they can, Pisces will remain in their own little world in order to avoid being hurt or being told lies because it is difficult to open up to a partner when you don’t trust them. Pisces partners will come across to Aries as shady and untrustworthy, and their world will be seen as a phony, hazy representation that is unnecessary.
Intelligence and Communication
If they are willing to open up and seek out each other’s support and counsel, Aries and Pisces could find plenty to discuss. Even though they frequently have completely different interests, they are connected as nearby signs and tend to lean on one another despite this. Through their relationship, they must discover their own flaws and how to overcome them in order to be whole. Although they don’t exactly complement one another, the impact they have on one another can be like the right dosage of medication.
Aries tends to be too quick-witted and impulsive for their relationships and to not look back or consider the past. They might also be waiting for any potential partner to pass by with a shotgun to kill their desire to even consider dating an Aries, much less be serious about a relationship with them.
Emotions of Aries Woman and Pisces Man
Their emotional worlds resemble the two distinct planets that govern their signs, Mars and Neptune. While Neptune is a blue gas giant, cold, buffeted by winds, and much further from the Sun than Mars, the ruler of Aries, is covered in rust, a red-colored desert with volcanoes, canyons, and weather. Their emotional states are very different in precisely this way. Aries values those who are clearly defined, strong, shielded, and painted in a passionate color. On the other hand, Pisces have a fickle and ephemeral emotional world that is blue, the color of sadness and vision, and they are easily deflated as soon as they experience disappointment.
How to improve this relationship
The Aries-Pisces bond is good, although not ideal. It is a couple that has to fight to stay afloat. However, with ideal conditions stability can be achieved.
Not so much at the beginning of the relationship, but over time the different personalities of these two signs can begin to collide. It is also essential to smooth out everyday roughness. Did you see those details that hardly annoy your partner? Over time they can become unbearable. Therefore, the key to improve and overcome crisis in this relationship is dialogue. Hardly a problem arises and when it does it can be resolved when addressed by speaking civilly. Never try to hide or silence a problem that really bothers you, because this will end up exploding sooner or later and, probably, with worse consequences.
There is an issue that can bring many problems in the Aries-Pisces bond
The needs of each sign are very different. The Aries will ask the Pisces for things that the Pisces does not have and vice versa. Both have very different ways of seeing the world. Sometimes they will not agree on many issues, therefore they should take this naturally and never confront on unimportant issues.
The Aries woman needs a determined and mature man. The Pisces man, if he is young, is usually indecisive, especially in matters related to love. Aries always wants a man who has decision-making power, yes, leaving her a portion of the decision making as well.
Pisces Man Aries Woman Sexually
Sexually they can get along very well, but this does not guarantee a good relationship as a couple. In bed it is essential not to be selfish. The pleasure will be in giving and receiving, in all the senses that imagination and fantasies can conceive, but it should always be enjoyable for both. If they maintain that initial spark, where they gave each other pleasure, the couple is guaranteed to succeed for many more years.
Finally you should know that Aries is usually a sensitive and intelligent woman. Therefore, the Pisces must treat her like a delicate flower due to her sensitivity and also encourage her intellectual gifts so that she can take advantage of her intelligence and bring them to fruition and recognition.
Love Compatibility
The Pisces man and Aries woman love compatibility can be seen as a combination of opposite personalities attracting each other. Pisces, being sweet and shy, contrasts with the loud and outgoing attitude of Aries.
However, despite these differences, if both of you are willing to work and put effort into your relationship, you can become an inspiring match for each other.
The intuition of Pisces is well complemented by the spontaneity and willingness to take risks of Aries. In addition, the determination and mental strength of Aries protect and provide security to Pisces, who is more sensitive and emotional. These two connect on a deep level and their communication flows naturally.
However, the love compatibility between Pisces and Aries can be affected by the differences in the way they both feel and express their emotions. While Pisces enjoys the freedom to experience different emotions at different times, Aries tends to have more rigid and defined emotions.
This discrepancy can cause friction in the relationship and generate mistrust. In order to build a lasting love relationship, it will be necessary to establish a solid foundation of trust.
In my experience as an astrological relationship therapist, I have seen that couples with these zodiac signs can face emotional challenges due to their differences.
However, I have also witnessed how mutual respect, open communication, and a willingness to accept and adapt to each other’s quirks can lead to a deep and enriching relationship. It is important to remember that each couple is unique and that the success of the relationship does not depend solely on astrological compatibility, but also on the willingness and commitment of both to make their love grow day by day.
Family Compatibility
The beginning of a family life entails different challenges than those of a simple relationship. In the case of compatibility between Pisces and Aries, it is important to note that this dynamic can last if there is mutual understanding between both signs.
Pisces represents the water element, while Aries is a fire sign. These two elements are opposite in nature, which can result in conflicts if not handled properly.
However, despite these fundamental differences, there is a possibility that Pisces water controls the impulsive fire of Aries, while Aries fire can bring warmth and energy to the calm water of Pisces. Both signs share the ability to dream big and fight hard to achieve their goals.
However, for this family compatibility to thrive, it is essential that both signs learn to help each other grow and avoid repelling each other. This implies that they must learn to tolerate and accept things from each other that they might not accept from another person. In addition, it is important that they are committed and enthusiastic to make things work in their family life.
From my experience as a therapist in astrological relationships, I can say that the success of a relationship lies in the willingness and effort that both parties put into understanding and supporting each other.
It’s true that Pisces and Aries compatibility can be challenging, but if these two signs decide to spend their lives together, they can go on to create a long-lasting and fulfilling family life.
It is important to remember that astrology can provide guidance, but it should not become an absolute limitation. The willingness to communicate, understand, and compromise are key elements in any successful relationship.
Therefore, although the family compatibility between Pisces and Aries can be a factor to take into account, it is essential that both signs are willing to work as a team and face any obstacle together to guarantee a solid and happy future.
Relationship Experiences
Jhannette Lope
I have a Pisces boyfriend. We argue a lot, but we are very similar to each other. Both want to go our own way and we are freedom-loving in life. We argue all the time, we did so especially at the beginning of the relationship. Now we have gotten a little soft. All the same, in this union it is easier to adapt to each other.
Leonylene Pangasian
My birthdate is April 12th, and my boyfriend was born on March 17th. We cannot live a day without each other. a lot of controversy and power struggles are there but we respect each other. He is the sexiest and smartest man I’ve ever met. Every day is filled with new and exciting things with him. This sign is very compatible with Aries women.
Lula Berry
I am an Aries woman born on April 14 and my Pisces husband is born on February 20. We have been together for 15 years and cannot live without each other in spite of the fact that there is a lot of controversy!
Vilma Bauan Acuzar
I am Aries and my boyfriend is Pisces. He is good in bed. I love him madly. Next to him I can relax and enjoy life. I really like him.
Trish Russo
Between the Pisces man and the Aries woman a very pure love arises. But over time, it can begin to strangle and become commanding, so we broke up. A year later, I realized that I madly love this man and want to return, but I don’t know if he wants this. What should I do? Does he still love me?
Glorilyn Fama
I am Pisces (ascendant – Leo) woman, married to Aries (ascendant – Virgo). 15 years of true bliss have passed. My husband is a wonderful person, very sweet and caring. Of course, there are disputes, but mainly because of me. He is a caring father, treats me like a lady.
Judy Anne Franco Laño
I am an Aries woman and my husband is Pisces. We have been married for a year, at the beginning there was a lot of noise and debate, but over time, somehow it all calmed down. Before the wedding, we met for 4 years. This relationship just needs more time for us to understand each other. I am madly in love with my husband! He is a very sweet and honest person. My childhood dream came true!
Rosie Callihan Kelly
I am an Aries woman and he is a Pisces man. We understand each other very well, sometimes even just by looking each other in the eye. The Pisces are very sensitive, very kind and romantic. I love him very much.
Compatibility Percentage
| Criterion | Degree of compatibility: Aries woman and Pisces man | |
| Emotional connection | Average | 3 STARS |
| Communication | Average | 3 STARS |
| Trust and dependency | Below average | 2 STARS |
| Common values | Weak | 1 STAR |
| Intimacy and sex | Strong | 4 STARS |