These two could have a wonderful time together, if the Aries girl could only get one thing into her head. When an Aquarius man laughs, it’s because he’s feeling very sad. When he cries, it’s because he’s feeling very happy. Once she understands this important game he plays, she’ll feel more comfortable with all his other tricks. I’m talking about the tricks the Aquarius man uses to keep the girl from guessing that he loves her. Also the ones he employs when she’s already guessed and he doesn’t want her to find out the extent of his love, and don’t skip the stratagems he uses when he realizes he’s hopelessly in love, but still tries to convince himself that he can change this feeling back into friendship, before it’s too late. If you like games, this man is more entertaining than a stack of crossword puzzles. The Aries girl likes games. But there’s a little catch. She only likes them when the other player lets her win every time.
The Aquarius man can’t stand Ram girls who play by these rules. He won’t give her a leg up or let her roll the dice just because she sheds a few angry tears. Since she’s so independent and aggressive for a woman, he’ll probably say, “Listen, mate (Aquarians call everyone mate), if you’re so sensitive, how do you explain that I saw you at that feminist parade last week? You women who demand equal rights better be prepared to take on all of them, including moving furniture, fixing pipes, changing tires—and fighting alongside men in war.” He’s wrong. She only joined the parade because she couldn’t resist the excitement of the drum rolls. After all, Rams are idealists who sometimes cheer for a cause before they know it thoroughly. It’s unlikely that she’s formally affiliated with any feminist group. An Aries? She was born liberated… and has no intention of giving up her female privileges, just to prove that she is equal when she knows she is superior! It’s just that she likes to debate problems from time to time, to keep her mind sharp.
He’ll say, for example, “Your argument that equal rights means women should wear uniforms, pick up machine guns, and start killing people is misleading and fallacious. If women ruled this country, there would be no more wars. It’s men who advocate physical violence, fighting, and war—not women.” AQUARIUS: Really? What a farce! Sooner or later, she’ll complain that he’s either haughty and detached, or downright cruel and sadistic. (To Aries, one equals the other. In his eyes, haughty is synonymous with cruel, and detached is synonymous with sadistic.) It’s simply his admirable, though admittedly irritating, open-mindedness that insulates him from the petty, personal emotions of individuals while promoting the lofty ideals of male and female brotherhood. The Aquarian is more interested in discovering a definitive cure for the common cold than in handing you a Kleenex when you sneeze. He is more concerned with the problems of geriatrics and aging than with helping old ladies cross the street, individually. Uranus directs his feelings and intellect toward alleviating all the world’s misfortunes and ills in a bright future. He has little compassion left for the personal troubles that are brewing around him today.
Make no mistake: this man is basically kind and good-natured. And his intentions are noble. However, when dealing with Aquarians, always think of Robespierre (who had an Aquarius ascendant). His moral principles and plans for the regeneration of France were undoubtedly very sincere and idealistic. But he failed to consider the fact that France was a country populated by human beings with feelings, and in his revolutionary fanaticism he cut off many heads… in the literal sense of the word. The Aquarian tries to be optimistic and understanding with his friends in trouble… and with the Aries girl (who needs his broad shoulder to lean on and cry on after he has made her suffer). But this understanding often consists of rather vague generalities. Thanks to the clairvoyance typical of Uranus, the Aquarian instinctively understands the deeper meaning of affliction. He knows that the soul is only perfected through suffering… and he does not like to correct fate. Who is he to jam its gears? Maybe destiny is a synonym for God. (You see that their definitions of synonyms are also a bit different.)
Okay, so the Water Bearer can be kind and gentle, tender, sweet and funny when he feels like it. But he is still cold and ruthless when viewed through the sentimental eyes of the more sensitive and outgoing Aries girl. The difference between their idiosyncrasies can occasionally be regulated by compromise, but it can never be fully overcome. He has hundreds, perhaps even thousands of friends. With such a multitude, she obviously won’t be passionate about all of them. (She’s not an Aquarius… he is.) The more time he spends with these friends, away from her, the more opportunities she has to feel jealous. Since jealousy is the Aries’ romantic Achilles’ heel, their relationships are more likely to prosper if she allows him to bring his friends home than if she forces him to meet them in the park by the squirrel cage. There’s nothing she can do to disabuse him of this obsession with friendship. He’s a humanitarian. He enjoys the company of people. She will simply have to convince herself of this.
What she should do is forget all her virtues, such as vision, originality, clairvoyance, friendliness, and humanitarianism… and concentrate on her flaws. (I know this seems like strange advice, but this is an Aquarius, which means that everything you have learned should be turned upside down, and read backwards as it is reflected in a mirror.) It is her flaws, not her virtues, that can hold them together. Let’s look at some of them. He is unpredictable. She will have to admit that this is an exciting quality for Aries. It stimulates Mars’ passion for challenge. He is also eccentric, odd, unconventional, and quirky. Great. Nothing will bore this girl more than a man who is stiff and bound to a conservative routine. He listens to strange music and runs after a faraway, crazy drum (all Rams love a parade). Hooray! Well, what do you say… a parade! If she behaves well, he will allow her to take his hand and accompany him. As for the far-off, hallucinatory drum he is running after, to Aries a roll is a roll. What does it matter? Any kind of percussion sets his pulse racing and his heart racing in convulsive spasms of hope amid banners of excitement. However, his pounding pulse may subside a little when it comes time to achieve sexual satisfaction with this man. At first, the Aries girl’s most direct and inflamed Martian thrust may whizz over her Aquarius lover’s head. What has become of him? He was here a minute ago. Oh, there he is. She will have to go back and pick him up. He is still sitting in the same place, scratching his left ear and trying to analyze the first kiss. You say that is not all? Well, how interesting.
He is willing to learn and to let her teach him. Whether or not he ever graduates is another matter. No, she has not stumbled upon a virgin. This is possible, of course, but probably the reason he is amazed and in awe is that, for the typical Aquarian, each new life experience is exactly the same as the first: to be savored, savoured, and then treasured or discarded. His attitude to romance is no different. Because the attraction between Aries and Aquarius rests essentially on emotional magnetism and intellectual curiosity, their sexual union can be unpredictable. It is the same problem as before again. His apparent detachment… and her distaste for anything less than instant gratification. However, if the Sun-Moon relationship between their horoscopes is harmonious (and often, even if it is not), there is a good chance that, with practice, the physical expression of love between them will eventually be perfect. The aura of Aries freshness and her candor, her basic sincerity regarding sexual love, will fascinate him and induce him to react with unusual tenderness. But she must always preserve the ideal image and the innocence of the first seduction. And so must he.
The cause of many of the couple’s problems will be that she is cardinal, and therefore likes to drive… and he is fixed, and therefore refuses to follow. In addition, both were born under a masculine sun sign and, to top it off, both are ruled by masculine planets, powerful and unpredictable. Mars and Uranus are not gelatinous. They are equally explosive and violent, like the lovers or spouses ruled by them and whose actions they guide. The 3-11 vibration of spontaneous friendship and communication that exists between them can smooth out some of the rough edges of these rocky bridges. And astrology has other resources to smooth the path to happiness for the Ram girl and her Aquarius man (and also for the Aquarius man and his Ram girl, because when it comes to these two, the masculine charisma of ownership and possession works both ways). The free esoteric association of thoughts can give them unexpected practical help, despite its mystical quality. You should try to meditate together on the layers of deeper meaning in your 3-11 Sun Sign Pattern. In astrology, this relationship is called a sextile. When you think of the word “sextile,” an image of snowflakes and stars comes to mind, because the astrological symbol for a sextile resembles both. It looks like this: * * * * And what image could be more beautiful than snowflakes and stars?
The snowflake has a unique and original design… and so does the Aquarius man. No two snowflakes are alike, and this man has no equal on Earth either. As for the stars, they are the sparkling diamonds in the sky toward which children (and all believers) raise their wishes, and they must bring back memories of her to him. For the heart of the Aries girl will always be the heart of a child, believing in magic and miracles… in spring and dawn… so naive and trusting… so excited by all the new wonders and thrills of discovery… so open and warm like a child’s… and just as vulnerable, behind the facade of outward independence. You will be amazed to discover how this little meditation exercise will lift you back to joy and laughter from the shadows of fear and rejection, jealousy and anger. If every time she sees a snowflake she thinks of his uniqueness… and every time he sees a star he thinks of the childlike innocence of her intentions… the tension between them will melt into understanding, just as a snowflake melts… and shine with new promise, just as a star shines. Snowflakes and stars can be a magic mantra for all lovers influenced by the 3-11 vibration, but especially for this man and this woman. Falling snowflakes and shooting stars can be their private key to love.
Sometimes these two Sun signs remind us of the old fable, slightly modified. A magical purple goblin comes to grant three wishes to the Aries girl and her Aquarius man. In typical Uranus eccentric behavior he asks for a cake. Instead of leaving everyone else alone and asking for what her heart desires, the Ram girl is so aggrieved and enraged by her lover’s impertinent wish that she exclaims, “I wish the stupid cake would stick to your nose!” And naturally they must sacrifice the third and final wish to get the cake off his face. It’s sad that two people who love each other have exhausted all their wishes. However, they may have something left from yesterday to use as a bridge to tomorrow. What about all those crazy daydreams and… Wait a minute! Listen! Isn’t that a hallucinatory, out-of-tune drum roll in the distance? Yes, it is. They both heard it. To hell with the fight. He grabs her hand tightly and they both run together to join the parade (with the Ram at the head, of course).
Aquarius Man Obsessed with Aries Woman
The horoscope gives the Aries Woman and Aquarius Man bond very good compatibility. It tends to be long-lasting and even lead to a happy marriage.
Aries is deeply attracted to the Aquarius, who is good for business, distinguished, and very original.
It is important that you fight for this relationship because, after smoothing things out, you can achieve a very good and happy bond.
She must understand that he, as a good Aquarius, does not want to be ordered (nor will he obey), something that Aries, in general, likes to do a lot.
A stellar crush: Aries Woman and Aquarius Man in perfect harmony
During my work as a psychologist, I have had the privilege of witnessing a fascinating love story that has left an indelible mark on my memory. This story starring an Aries woman and an Aquarius man is conclusive proof that astrological compatibility can be decisive in a couple’s life.
It all started in one of my motivational talks about healthy relationships. Mariana, an Aries woman whose strong and passionate character was evident in every word she spoke, was among my assistants. During the conference, I could notice her vibrant energy and her desire to find a partner who could match her intensity.
After finishing the talk, Mariana approached me with a determined look and confessed that she had met someone who deeply intrigued her. “He’s an Aquarius man,” she added with a nervous smile. She told me that they had spoken on the phone and felt an instant connection, as if their souls knew each other beforehand.
Driven by an immense interest in discovering what the future held for them, Mariana decided to visit me in my office. Observing her enthusiasm and conviction, I couldn’t help but investigate further into the compatibility of these two signs. I found that while Aries and Aquarius may be different, they also share many qualities that can make for a great fit.
The first time I saw them together, I felt how the stars seemed to align for them. Mariana radiated contagious joy as she introduced Daniel, an Aquarius man whose intelligence and originality were evident in every word she uttered. Together, they seemed to form a kind of cosmic team that defied the laws of logic.
Throughout their relationship, I could see that the differences between Aries and Aquarius became a perfect complement. Mariana’s overflowing passion and her need for adventure found an echo in Daniel’s independence and innovative mind. Together, even in moments of conflict, they always managed to find creative solutions and respect their individualities.
Time passed and I witnessed how this couple became more consolidated every day. His love was pure, sincere and full of surprises. Although obstacles appeared in their path, their heavenly connection allowed them to face them with courage and understanding. Their mutual commitment to growing together and building a strong relationship enriched their lives in indescribable ways.
Over time, Mariana and Daniel became an inspiration to others, proving that astrological compatibility can be much more than just a belief. Their love story left a deep mark on my work and on my heart, constantly reminding me that when the stars align, love can blossom in unimaginable ways.
The Combo
The combination of the air sign – Aquarius and the fire sign – Aries can be quite fierce. As the Aquarius man comes into contact with the Aries woman, instant sparks of attraction are felt between the two. The Aquarius man is quite undemanding in love and caters to the needs of an Aries woman wonderfully.
An Aries woman is loving and is often seen as selfish and demanding. When they are in love together, they both make an amazing match with mutual affection and trust.
An Aquarius man can be quite distant in love. He is selfish in his goals and feels like he knows everything. Theirs is a mutually challenging relationship where they both feel that the other is a perfect match for them, but they also take it as a challenge.
Their compatibility is very strange looking at their natures, and yet it works well quite often. The outside world will often wonder what the couple sees each other as and how they get along. The fact is that the Aquarius man is attracted to the passionate and fiery personality of his Aries lady and is attracted to her intellectual and innovative mind.
Compatibility Analysis
While in a relationship, both seem to be very exciting and enthusiastic for each other, the innocence of the Aries woman makes the Aquarius man hook up with her.
She also seems to be the perfect intellectual partner for him, and her dynamism and intelligent cunningness helps him with the relationship.
She tends to be a bit picky at times, but he adapts to her tantrums wonderfully. On the other hand, an Aries woman always puts him on the side in all aspects of life. She is very creative and innovative in their relationship, a quality that keeps them both hooked.
An Aquarius man is very wise and strong-willed. She admires these qualities about him. An Aries woman can be a bit domineering at times, but her nature matches her calm demeanor perfectly. An Aquarius man is outgoing and very friendly. This quality of his can sometimes get him in trouble with his beloved, as he can become very jealous.
The impulsive Aries woman needs a very understanding and generous partner, and the Aquarius man matches her perfectly. He has the ability to handle her confusion and is often very understanding of her. Together, in a relationship, he easily adjusts to her emotional outbursts and falls into an easy pattern to calm her down. She feels loved and protected by him. The Aquarius man also finds her very irresistible and capable, and the Aries woman finds him very outgoing and adventurous. With him by her side, her stubborn nature gives way.
As they say, some people bring out the best in you, and there are some who bring out the worst in you. Your relationship ideally belongs to the first category.
How they get along in love
Day after day, year after year the couple will find their love for each other growing by leaps and bounds. Slowly they begin to understand the value of commitment and love. As they are both equally passionate, they both remain committed to each other forever with mutual emotion and feelings intact. They both bring out the best in each other and are also very helpful to each other in different facets of life.
An Aquarius man and an Aries woman share a strong understanding of each other that helps them overcome their differences quickly.
Aquarius Man Aries Woman Sexually
In the sexual sphere, people with the sign of Aries tend to be direct and expressive in their love for sex. This can be charming for someone with the sign of Aquarius. However, it is important for the Aries woman to maintain innocence in her initial meeting to maintain the spark in the relationship.
On the other hand, the Aquarius man will always look for his partner to provide him with freshness, novelty and innocence in intimacy. Sometimes, the Aries woman can surprise her partner with games and antics in bed. The Aquarius man is known for touching, squeezing, caressing and holding his woman during sex. This is not only driven by her desire, but also by the affection and love he feels for her.
The Aries woman adores this quality of the Aquarius man and returns his passion with equal happiness and desire. It is crucial for him that she preserves her innocence in bed, as this will keep him coming back for more. Despite this, in terms of sexuality, these two signs do not have many similarities.
The Aries woman loves sex, while the Aquarius man tends to be more reserved in this regard. He usually takes an intellectual approach to sex, but also allows himself to experiment in bed to have exciting moments. This difference in the way sex is enjoyed can lead to both partners feeling dissatisfied in the long term.
It is natural that partners may feel exhausted trying to satisfy each other’s sexual needs without finding a true connection. However, with open communication and a willingness to explore new forms of pleasure, you could discover a more fulfilling and compatible sexuality together.
Remember that mutual understanding and acceptance of differences is essential in any relationship. No two people are the same, and that is what makes each relationship unique and special. Take advantage of the qualities that attract you to each other and be willing to learn and grow together sexually.
Benefits of the Relationship
Here are some major positive traits of either an Aquarius man or an Aries woman that can really aid in the development of a strong bong between a couple in this dynamic.
1. Kind
The fact that the Aquarius man is kind—something that an Aries woman loves to see in a partner—is one of the best things about an Aquarius man and Aries woman pairing. She places a high value on kindness, so an Aquarius man with a strong king streak will be very alluring to her.
2. Knowledgeable
From an Aries woman’s perspective, the intellect that an Aquarius man frequently possesses is very alluring. She enjoys learning new things, so she enjoys talking to an Aquarius partner because they seem to know a lot about everything. The Aquarius desire to learn as much as they can is also something she finds to be very attractive. She views it as a very admirable quality because it indicates that an Aquarius man is constantly attempting to learn as much as he can about other cultures and ways of life.
3. Adorable
The Aquarius man is one of the zodiac’s most endearing signs, which aids in his appeal to the Aries woman. His sharp intellect and understanding of other cultures contribute to his charm. Even though it’s not his intention, he frequently attracts people and is someone they want to hang out with. The charming Aquarius man is frequently a much-desired entity, and the Aries woman enjoys being in a relationship with him.
4. Confident
The optimism that the Aries woman exudes attracts the Aquarius man in a big way. She always sees the positive side of things and wishes everyone and everything the best. She actually seeks out the best in everyone, and she frequently notices a person’s positive traits much more readily than their negative ones. This is good news for the relationship between the Aquarius and the Ram because it means that the Aries woman will typically overlook an Aquarian’s flaws.
How to improve this relationship
This Aries-Aquarius bond is really very good. The horoscope predicts a stable relationship and even a probable good marriage. In any case, the strength of this bond, at times, is its greatest weakness … because when things go wrong, everything falls apart like a house of cards.
From the beginning, they both have an irrepressible passion for each other. Unfortunately, this is what brought them together and it can also be the breaking point of the relationship because, they wonder, ‘what happened to that past passion? Will there no longer be love? Do we really love each other?’
In bed, it is essential not to be selfish
The pleasure will be in giving and receiving, in all senses that imagination and fantasies can conceive, but it should always be enjoyable for both. If they maintain that initial spark, where they gave each other pleasure, the couple is guaranteed to flourish for many more years.
Talking about sexual tastes, fantasies, and surprises in bed can improve this relationship. The woman must know that the man works differently in bed and, many times what is erotic for him is not for her and vice versa. Therefore detecting what can turn on and drive the other one crazy on the sexual plane will help this relationship.
It is also essential to smooth out everyday roughness. Did you see those details that hardly annoy your partner? Over time they can become unbearable. Therefore the key to improving this relationship is DIALOGUE. If a problem arises: talk. Never try to hide or silence a problem that really bothers you, because this will end up exploding later and, probably, with worse consequences.
The Aquarian is a man who does not like to be commanded. This may be another point that can trigger a crisis in this link. And Aries is sometimes quite bossy.
She must learn to control her impulsive nature. Although she is not usually a jealous or overly problematic woman, when jealousy or other character problems arise, she usually uncovers like an erupting volcano. This can exasperate her man, break the relationship, and the bond of trust.
Finally, you should know that Aries is usually a sensitive and intelligent woman. Therefore, the Aquarian must treat her like a delicate flower due to her sensitivity and also encourage her intellectual gifts to take advantage of her intelligence.
The problems in the relationship
It takes a bit of commitment in every relationship. An Aquarius man and an Aries woman can get along with just a few commitments from each side. The detachment and distraction of the Aquarius man can sometimes outrage the Aries woman, while the selfish attitude of the Aries woman can depress the Aquarius man. To balance your love equation, you both need to understand each other’s nature and give each other some space. An Aries woman should diminish his selfish traits, and he should be more present and alert in her company.
The relationship will be more of a mental attraction than a physical attraction. The Aries woman loves to dominate and win all situations, but eventually, she will understand that she cannot be more cunning than she ever was with her intellectual man. But on an emotional level, she wins every time and manages to dispel her cold indifference.
They may face a conflict of concern with loyalty and freedom. The Aries woman can appear very possessive, while the Aquarius man loves his freedom. If the relationship gets too suffocating, the Aquarius man might have an extramarital affair and the proud Aries woman, to call her truce, might have one of her own. The result would be that both of you could settle down for an open relationship.
But if both of you are loyal and committed to each other, your relationship can work wonderfully well on a creative level. The Aries woman is ambitious, and with her attitude, she will help bring her ideas to life.
However, in some cases, at one point in time, both of you could get tired of each other and break each other down. They will take the separation well thinking that it just wasn’t working.
Relationship Experiences
Giselle Nazarea
I met with an Aquarius man for 2 years, recently our relationship has ended. He is insanely jealous and carries some nonsense. he never appreciated what I did for him. The bedroom was completely blissful, but everything else was real chaos. Although in the beginning, he was very charming and sweet, as soon as the romance was over, he showed his true character. A complete disappointment.
Patty Eicheldinger
We also met for 2 years, it was not a relationship, but a roller coaster. He could make me do almost everything he wanted. I was just in love, but he was constantly rude. He always controlled and manipulated me. Will never again be associated with other Aquarius men. Aries women watch out!
Aigbe Osaretin Joy
We have been dating for 3 years. He has never been rude to me. He loves to argue and win. I also like to argue, but not with him. It is better for him to keep his mouth shut because he is a very quick-tempered guy. These are men who need to be loved as they are, it is absolutely impossible to retrain them. He is very caring, so much so that sometimes it seems that I am meeting with my mother. This relationship is a real roller coaster, never is it boring.
Thyne Salo Dumaplin
I met an Aquarius man, next to him I feel special and beautiful. This man knows how to make me happy, and I respect and understand his need for personal space. We discuss any and every problem that arises and look for a solution. I just can’t get mad at him because he’s so funny and optimistic. Helps me look at things from a different angle. This is a relationship in which the Aries women get the better part.
David Sureboy
I am an Aquarius man, I met with a woman from the Aries sign for approximately 3 years. She was independent and open, which attracted me. However, for my taste, Aries women are too stubborn, which leads to the collapse of the union. These women never forget or forgive anything. Very impatient, if you want to be with such a woman you should always put her at the center of your life.
Jackson Gah
Ha ha ha I am an Aquarius man (DOB 13.02.). Last summer I met an Aries girl. She was 19 years old then. (DOB 20.04.). All in all nothing good came of the relationship!
Marilyn Gregory
I love freedom and I can’t pay attention to something or someone for a long time. And he found it offensive and, in the end, left me! There is no chance that it will work again. For it to work and sustain we will have to work very hard and consistently. Seems quite impossible. Let’s see.
Conclusion
The relationship between an Aries woman and an Aquarius man can get along without a hitch if they manage to compromise with a few insignificant differences. He gives her ideas as she executes them.
Theirs is an intellectual relationship, and they both like to engage in witty jokes and witty conversations. If you both understand and respect each other’s strengths, you can get along. They will show an unwavering commitment to each other. To maintain harmony, both of you must focus on your enthusiasm for each other.
Be careful when entering a relationship with these two zodiac signs – it will be fun no matter what.
Compatibility Percentage
| Criterion | Degree of compatibility: Aries woman and Aquarius man | |
| Emotional connection | Below average | 2 STARS |
| Communication | Strong | 4 STARS |
| Trust and dependency | Average | 3 STARS |
| Common values | Very strong | 5 STARS |
| Intimacy and sex | Strong | 4 STARS |