Each sign of the zodiac has its own particularities, so it makes sense that a romantic relationship with each of them is unique.
Today, we will discuss love with the fire and water signs, which are opposites.
In your opinion, which relationships are the most intense? The most boring?
Before we begin, a quick reminder so we don’t get lost in all this information:
Fire signs: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
Water signs: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
I’m going to reveal my personal love experiences and those of my friends!
So, get ready for some steamy revelations…
Aries
The Fiery Spice
Aries is known to be a fiery and extroverted person.
In my experience, these people are also excellent dancers, but they are barely 1.70 m tall.
It’s a shame, because they have so much energy and joie de vivre that they simply shine.
I remember always knowing and spending time with many Aries natives, but I only had one romantic date.
In fact, it was the strangest date of my life!
We went to play pool and have a drink at the bar, it was nice, but the conversation was extremely unusual, as he chose topics that were foreign and boring to me.
We didn’t write to each other afterwards, thankfully, he also found me strange.
In my experience, these people are very sociable and talkative when it comes to friends and colleagues, but not with everyone.
Otherwise, they’re big partygoers and perfect for going out and attending concerts. When it comes to serious problems, they can seem a bit childish, but they handle them well, in their own way.
If that means going to Mallorca with their friends and drinking every day, so be it.
This is how my Aries colleague got over his breakup with his long-term fiancée. Yes, it takes a lot of energy, desire, and patience with Aries men, but I’d say it’s worth it because they give so much in return.
Leo
Warmth and Trust
Leo natives are generally big, warm creatures who love being the center of attention.
This can be both attractive and difficult!
Over time, I discovered that these people had a weakness for the energy radiated by air signs.
They find them interesting and want to spend their time with them.
Some combinations of air and fire signs are true miracles.
Honestly, everyone except Leo and Gemini.
The Leo has an extroverted and warm personality that can be very pleasant.
On the other hand, 90% of the time, these people simply talk about themselves and their greatness.
Even if this is not the case, they expect others to compliment them, otherwise they feel invisible and therefore unloved.
I don’t like that about them: they like and expect constant validation from the outside world and generally don’t realize that it’s enough to love yourself and find yourself sufficient and worthy.
The Leo I was in a relationship with was passionate and intelligent, a real beast in bed, and he loved going out with friends and spending time outdoors.
However, the topics of conversation with him and his argumentative nature were what put me off the most.
In any case, Leo natives are better suited to Aquarius and certainly to Libra.
In my opinion, Geminis are simply not compatible enough with them.
Sagittarius
Adventure in the Blood
To put it simply (or not), a Sagittarius man needs a woman who believes in all his dreams, not a woman who constantly pops his balloons with needles of doubt.
There are so few Sagittarians in my life and I only know a handful of people who belong to that sign.
I later learned that Sagittarius and Aquarius are the rarest astrological signs of the zodiac.
It was interesting to see things that way!
Thus, one of my best friends was born under the sign of Taurus while her husband was born under the sign of Sagittarius.
I think they make a very good couple, but only because their ascendants are reversed: her ascendant is Sagittarius and her husband’s is Taurus.
Otherwise, it would be an impossible relationship, with too many differences and inequalities.
Sagittarians need their freedom and they value it more than anything in the world.
That’s why they need open and simple partners; this seems to match the Gemini energy well.
Both Sagittarius and Gemini need partners to ground them in some way, but not completely, so that they don’t feel trapped.
Cancer
Emotionally Unavailable
Cancer natives are known to be very sensitive and have a high emotional quotient.
Furthermore, they are also ruled by the moon and are therefore prone to mood swings.
They have deep feelings and when they are hurt in love, it can take them some time to recover.
I have never been attracted to a Cancer man, even though I have my Mercury and Venus in that exact sign.
The way these people are sensitive seems simply frustrating to me!
It is perfectly normal to be sensitive, of course, but if one’s feelings are hurt (and no one can say or understand), two scenarios can occur.
First: Cancer plays the victim and makes the other person feel guilty so that they apologize even if they did nothing intentionally.
Secondly: Cancer dramatizes the whole situation as if the worst is about to happen, he is angry and wants revenge immediately.
You never know which variant will occur, because these people are by nature very unstable and changeable.
A friend told me about her date with a Cancer man.
He had kind, dark eyes and a warm smile, and yet you could practically see the sad little rain clouds gathering above his head.
Despite the obvious warning signs, she did not give up.
Throughout the entire date, he only talked about his ex-girlfriend, who had hurt him so much and left him.
He explained to her in detail how he couldn’t forget her and that he wanted her back.
He was so depressed and my friend felt sorry for him because she realized he had no one to confide in about all this.
Scorpio
Pure Seduction
Scorpio natives are sexy and mysterious, the kind of people who hang out on Instagram, but rarely post anything.
They are ruled by Mars, the planet of passion and action, but also of aggression and power.
All of these terms can also be associated with Scorpio.
Added to this is the depth and transformation of the second ruling planet – Pluto!
Yes, so we receive the entire package, which is pretty awesome.
My first real boyfriend, with whom I was in a relationship for three years, was a Scorpio.
He was four years older than me and taught me everything I know about sexuality.
In any case, I’m glad that’s the case, because we had an excellent relationship.
Of course, we were not alike and our interests were very different, but our sense of humor, deep conversations, and intense feelings kept us together.
We were students at the time and I found him rather passive.
He didn’t want to go out, not with me, not with his friends, not with our mutual friends.
We only traveled together twice, and it wasn’t because we didn’t have money or time, but because he didn’t want to.
These things were very important to me at the time (and still are today), and even though I could think of him as my husband, I couldn’t imagine stopping going out and traveling at 21 because he didn’t want to do that with me.
We broke up after a disastrous date and we only see each other afterwards for sex.
He then had a child with a Cancer woman and I married a Capricorn native.
So, one way or another, we both remained true to our preferences.
Pisces
The Soft Plush
Pisces are elusive and mysterious creatures, which makes them fascinating to most women.
In most cases, however, it turns out that these are simply precarious and unstable personalities.
These natives can hide this very cleverly with art, moist eyes, quotes, and gentle daydreaming.
But sooner or later, they end up revealing their true face and characteristics when a woman has taken the bait.
I don’t understand why all Pisces men seem a little confused.
I dated someone born under that zodiac sign!
He may not have been completely obsessed, but he certainly had interests that seemed strange and unpredictable to me.
It wasn’t a big problem because I also have interests that are not appreciated by everyone.
But he kept talking about it, and I was so bored with him that I didn’t even know what to say.
Of course, he was sensitive, kind, and polite and generally good, but not for me.
I later discovered that his ascendants, Mars and Venus, were in Gemini.
In my opinion, you either have to be born under a water sign yourself, or be a psychologist to understand these beings.
Without meaning to offend anyone, this kind of romantic relationship is really not for me!