Sometimes, we put on armor out of fear, out of doubt or because we simply believe that it is not the time to start any love story. Sometimes we simply do it because we do not want feelings to come in or come out, because we need more time with ourselves, alone, or because we do not want anything from outside to be a brake on our evolution, on our growth ... That they love us because we think that it can ruin our lives or because, perhaps, we are afraid that everything will change us at once. You will not let them love you ...
You won’t let them love you because you really don’t want to calm down. You like your freedom, you like doing and undoing as you please and deep down, you’re afraid that a relationship will ruin all that. It is not that you are afraid of love, but rather that you are afraid of losing your independence, losing your autonomy. If someone cuts your wings, in any way, you wither ...
You will not let them love you because they have hurt you a lot before and you are afraid it will happen again. You may open some doors but you won’t open all of them. Deep down, you hope that he is different from the rest but there is something inside of you that tells you not to trust, that it can be dangerous ... You will not let him love you until he shows you that he does not look like anyone at all It hurt you so much, those who disappointed you so much.
You will not let him love you because you are not sure what you feel or what you want. You know that you change your mind too much and that your world is not easy for anyone. In addition, you are not very clear that someone knows how to lead your life rhythm and share concerns with you. It is often difficult for you to find someone like you, it is often difficult for you to understand that perhaps you are ready to fall in love ...
You will not let them love you because before it happens, you are already afraid that they will leave, that they will hurt you, that you will have a bad time again. You are a very intuitive person and in a certain way, you feel that your instinct often warns you of everything. But often you also close the doors to someone who is perhaps worth letting in. You don’t want to be the one who loses out in the relationship now and before anything happens, you prefer to exclude people from your life without realizing that, perhaps, they had no intention of hurting you.
You won’t let them love you because you don’t want them to trample you again, because you don’t want them to take everything they can from you, because you don’t want them to take advantage of you. You love being in love but you don’t know how to give little by little, you don’t know how to manage your love, your doses, your affection ... Either you give everything, or you don’t give anything. And perhaps, even if you are wanting it, you know that the best thing now is to be more cautious than ever.
You won’t let them love you because deep down, you feel like maybe you don’t deserve it. You often sabotage everything so that it does not go to more for some reason that only you know. You are very hard on yourself and that is why you are also hard on others. You deserve Virgo love, but you have to learn to let yourself go a little more, without conditions, without bad thoughts and above all, without hypotheses that are sometimes practically imaginary.
You will not let them love you because you do not want to end up like those couples who fight all the time and who no longer have a life, or any spark in their relationships. You won’t let them love you because even though you know relationships have ups and downs, the highs make you touch the sky and the lows make you miserable. And at that moment you have a much worse time than other people. And although you know that everything is a balance and that for good things to happen, bad things have to happen, you are very afraid that the balance will go out of balance in the wrong direction. You will not let them love you even if you want to die.
You will not let them love you because you do not trust, but not only in someone, but in nobody. You have fears and insecurities in others and that prevents you from loving people you can really trust. For you, almost everyone is guilty, and only when they prove otherwise do they become innocent. You base your trust on actions, therefore, you will not let them love you ... And you have to show it a lot ... But a lot ...
You won’t let them love you because you don’t like ties. And love can sometimes seem like a kind of “contract” to you, with some rights but also with some obligations. You want to go out, enter, travel, discover, go to one place and another and do anything without having to give explanations to anyone. And if you are in a relationship you feel like you have to. True love will never stop you from doing everything you want Sagi. In fact, true love will always drive you to do it.
You will not let them love you because you constantly restrain your feelings. Because in the end, you always put love in the background and many times you purposely diminish its importance ... You are afraid of getting attached to someone who does not correspond to you in the same way. You are afraid of loving so strongly that that love is ultimately the priority, in everything you think about. Deep down, you are soft, but on the outside you want to give the feeling that love is not that important ... Even if you know that many times it is the only thing that saves you.
You will not let them love you because you know that sometimes you accidentally do a lot of damage, because your world is not the same world as others, because you are not good at opening yourself up completely, because you do not want to be vulnerable ... want because you are afraid to share your feelings and, even if it is what you want the most, you do not want anyone to have that power in their hands. You will not let them love you because you will pretend nothing matters to you, because you believe that with your head you can control your heart. You will realize that it is not like that ...
You will not let them love you because first you will have to feel that the connection is really real. And that will take a long time to happen. You are not looking for someone to give you a little love and disappear when they please. When you open your heart, you do it because you want them to stay in it. You do not care if it takes you a long time to find that person, it does not matter exactly the same to be alone but you will not let them love you if you know very well that that person is not the person.